What happened?

[Tippiechick]

Originally Posted by uk2011

I said "girl" because I talked to one girl at a time. It happened with three girls in one house and two in another, and apparently not just to me.

Listen, I am sooo sorry you all think I'm wrong for believing that particular group of girls was fake. But with all due respect, you weren't there, and no sorority is perfect.

Also: please re-read my original post. I said what was hard for me is that it all seemed so fake. Nowhere did I put down those two sororities, or sororities in general. I felt like the houses I visited were misleading. If you actually personally know the girls I'm talking about, then please, feel free to correct me. It just seems like maybe some of you all are arguing for the sake of arguing.

Hundreds of girls going through recruitment. Minutes to get an impression of someone. Decisions being out of your hands sometimes. You seriously think rush is some fabulous process where people become best friends overnight?

I have told girls I really liked them and would like to see them again. It was the truth. The truth was also that it might happen and it might not based on membership selection on both sides.

I would pay money to see you when you get on the other side of rush. When you pull so hard for a girl you really think would make a great sister, only to have said girl think the whole process seems fake because she didn't get voted through.

We're not arguing for the sake of arguing, sweetie. We're arguing because in the world of sororities, we actually know more than you.