What happened?

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by uk2011

I guess that's just a difference in opinion. If a girl tells me she loves me and wants to see me come back, and then cuts me, then of course I'm going to think thats fake. Emphasis on the telling me she wants me to come back. I'm sorry you think that's so wrong.

I realize you're fresh off the recruitment emotional stuff, but here is the flaw in your logic:

One or two or three girls are not the ones making the cuts. It is possible that they really did like you and wanted you to come back the next day, but for whatever reason the chapter (not just those few girls) did not invite you back.

On the sister side, sometimes there are girls that we absolutely love and want to see join, but are sometimes let go for whatever reason. You might not think it, but rush on the active side is really hard too because some tough decisions need to be made.

Sorry you are feeling bad, but don't hold a grudge on those girls because they probably really did like you.

[uk2011]

Originally Posted by texas*princess

I realize you're fresh off the recruitment emotional stuff, but here is the flaw in your logic:

One or two or three girls are not the ones making the cuts. It is possible that they really did like you and wanted you to come back the next day, but for whatever reason the chapter (not just those few girls) did not invite you back.

On the sister side, sometimes there are girls that we absolutely love and want to see join, but are sometimes let go for whatever reason. You might not think it, but rush on the active side is really hard too because some tough decisions need to be made.

Sorry you are feeling bad, but don't hold a grudge on those girls because they probably really did like you.

Can I PLEASE just re-emphasize that I said it SEEMED fake to me?? That is my OPINION. I actually met the girls. The point I was trying to make with the original girl is that you never know what is going to happen or what did happen. Like I said, I was surprised that the houses I had the best experience in cut me, and the houses where the girls acted like the last thing they wanted to be doing was talk to m, did not cut me.

And I would also really, really like to re-emphasize that I am in a sorority that I LOVE with all of my heart. I am not holding a grudge by any means. My post was not negative, and I am terribly sorry that everyone is reading into it that way.

Yes, I thought those girls were fake. Yes, I was the only one here (as far as I know) that actually met them. Yes, that is my opinion.

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by uk2011

Can I PLEASE just re-emphasize that I said it SEEMED fake to me?? That is my OPINION. I actually met the girls. The point I was trying to make with the original girl is that you never know what is going to happen or what did happen. Like I said, I was surprised that the houses I had the best experience in cut me, and the houses where the girls acted like the last thing they wanted to be doing was talk to m, did not cut me.

And I would also really, really like to re-emphasize that I am in a sorority that I LOVE with all of my heart. I am not holding a grudge by any means. My post was not negative, and I am terribly sorry that everyone is reading into it that way.

Yes, I thought those girls were fake. Yes, I was the only one here (as far as I know) that actually met them. Yes, that is my opinion.

You can be as angry as you want about it, but truth be told, when I was in college there were girls I was happy to see back round after round that eventually got released. That doesn't make those girls you were talking to, or me fake.

Just sayin'.