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In a realistic world here, no one can feel comfortable in all of the groups and feel they can be a part/fit into all of the groups to maximize their options. Sure she can go to all of the parties and try, but having 12 that she was "solidly interested" in was a very high percentage. From my experiences, young women usually are not that openminded and do not have an interest in that many groups.
Honestly, she would not have been an asset in one of those other grouops because she did not have the desire/compassion to join. That is one thing I always keep in mind.
Sorority life is a wonderful experience, but in all honesty it is not always about GPA, activities, philanthropy, and recs that help you to receive an invite. Enough said.
I do hope she finds peace now as the semester starts and maybe something will happen for her when she least expects.
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