I agree with the two ladies above. You're absolutely right. I'm just saying women who dress too fast don't have any respect for themselves. A woman who has no respect for herself won't have any respect for others either. A classy woman to me is a woman who presents herself as an attractive woman because she knows she represents God to others. I know it can happen anywhere, but women like this who respect themselves generally don't hang out where no good men with bad morals hang out. To me, a woman with integrity lives a life that lines up with her Christian beliefs. She lives according to the standard of love rather than law. She doesn't "claim" to be a follower of Christ, yet disregard His many teachings on immodest dress. IMO, a woman of integrity lives what she believes about God , and it shows everywhere from head to toe.
Also the father figure was mentioned earlier. Yes, I agree. My parents have been married for 45 years and as a child and a man, all I've ever seen my dad do was/is serve and respect my mom. I'm not saying that a single mother can't raise a fine young man, because I've seen it happen. I do think it's a blessing to have a father figure in the home though. As far as rap music is concerned, I think it's the videos too, but I don't think it corrupts all black men. I listen to some old school rap, but I don't disrespect women, I never have and I never will. I don't allow many women into my life. It's one woman for me. Always has been, always will be. A lot gang banging, drugs, and alcoholism is mentioned in rap music too, but I don't gang bang, drink, or do drugs either. So some black men don't get influenced by rap music.
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ETA: Nothing wrong with drinking, if done responsibly. I just don't drink because of the taste.:-)
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Last edited by PrettyBoy; 06-22-2008 at 11:46 PM.
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