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[PrettyBoy]

I agree with the two ladies above. You're absolutely right. I'm just saying women who dress too fast don't have any respect for themselves. A woman who has no respect for herself won't have any respect for others either. A classy woman to me is a woman who presents herself as an attractive woman because she knows she represents God to others. I know it can happen anywhere, but women like this who respect themselves generally don't hang out where no good men with bad morals hang out. To me, a woman with integrity lives a life that lines up with her Christian beliefs. She lives according to the standard of love rather than law. She doesn't "claim" to be a follower of Christ, yet disregard His many teachings on immodest dress. IMO, a woman of integrity lives what she believes about God , and it shows everywhere from head to toe.

Also the father figure was mentioned earlier. Yes, I agree. My parents have been married for 45 years and as a child and a man, all I've ever seen my dad do was/is serve and respect my mom. I'm not saying that a single mother can't raise a fine young man, because I've seen it happen. I do think it's a blessing to have a father figure in the home though. As far as rap music is concerned, I think it's the videos too, but I don't think it corrupts all black men. I listen to some old school rap, but I don't disrespect women, I never have and I never will. I don't allow many women into my life. It's one woman for me. Always has been, always will be. A lot gang banging, drugs, and alcoholism is mentioned in rap music too, but I don't gang bang, drink, or do drugs either. So some black men don't get influenced by rap music.

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ETA: Nothing wrong with drinking, if done responsibly. I just don't drink because of the taste.:-)

[smc112]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I agree with the two ladies above. You're absolutely right. I'm just saying women who dress too fast don't have any respect for themselves. A woman who has no respect for herself won't have any respect for others either. A classy woman to me is a woman who presents herself as an attractive woman because she knows she represents God to others. I know it can happen anywhere, but women like this who respect themselves generally don't hang out where no good men with bad morals hang out. To me, a woman with integrity lives a life that lines up with her Christian beliefs. She lives according to the standard of love rather than law. She doesn't "claim" to be a follower of Christ, yet disregard His many teachings on immodest dress. IMO, a woman of integrity lives what she believes about God , and it shows everywhere from head to toe.

You aren't one of those who feel that women have to be dressed with a skirt all the way down to the ankles and wearing a turtle neck, are you? LOL Like I said before, there are a lot of women who like fashion and have diversity in their style. I'm a Holy Ghost filled woman of God, and I wear make-up and I keep up with the latest styles. I'm sure that I don't fit the mold of what some Pentecostal women would want me to wear. If you follow their beliefs they feel that women are going to Hell because they wear blue jeans and make-up. God calls us to be free, and to enjoy life. I'm a classy woman who loves God, and I feel I represent God well in the way I dress. It might not be a skirt all the way down to my ankles all the time, but God loves my sense of style because he gave me those creative gifts. God gifted me with the ability to apply my make-up and to coordinate some slamming outfits! God isn't concerned about the outside as much as he is concerned with the inner man of the heart. There are plenty of women who dress very modestly and be the biggest freaks! Sleeping around with everything! Like I said, you shouldn't always judge a book by it's cover. The girl with the short skirt might very well be a woman who operates in integrity. Jesus said something very interesting to the Pharisees in Matthew 23:27-28. He told them that they appeared to be righteous on the outside but on the inside they were filled with hypocrisy and wickedness. They were like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside full of dead men's bones and everything unclean. I thought this scripture was a prime example of not judging people based on outward appearances because everything is not what it seems to be.

*** By the way, I am a person who keeps things balanced with the way I dress, but I'm just making sure that you aren't on the extreme as the Pentecostals are. Thinking that women have to be covered from head to toe and that makes them "righteous".

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by smc112

You aren't one of those who feel that women have to be dressed with a skirt all the way down to the ankles and wearing a turtle neck, are you? LOL Like I said before, there are a lot of women who like fashion and have diversity in their style. I'm a Holy Ghost filled woman of God, and I wear make-up and I keep up with the latest styles. I'm sure that I don't fit the mold of what some Pentecostal women would want me to wear. If you follow their beliefs they feel that women are going to Hell because they wear blue jeans and make-up. God calls us to be free, and to enjoy life. I'm a classy woman who loves God, and I feel I represent God well in the way I dress. It might not be a skirt all the way down to my ankles all the time, but God loves my sense of style because he gave me those creative gifts. God gifted me with the ability to apply my make-up and to coordinate some slamming outfits! God isn't concerned about the outside as much as he is concerned with the inner man of the heart. There are plenty of women who dress very modestly and be the biggest freaks! Sleeping around with everything! Like I said, you shouldn't always judge a book by it's cover. The girl with the short skirt might very well be a woman who operates in integrity. Jesus said something very interesting to the Pharisees in Matthew 23:27-28. He told them that they appeared to be righteous on the outside but on the inside they were filled with hypocrisy and wickedness. They were like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside full of dead men's bones and everything unclean. I thought this scripture was a prime example of not judging people based on outward appearances because everything is not what it seems to be.

*** By the way, I am a person who keeps things balanced with the way I dress, but I'm just making sure that you aren't on the extreme as the Pentecostals are. Thinking that women have to be covered from head to toe and that makes them "righteous".

Nope. I'm not one of those men who only date women who are completely covered. I like to see skin too. I am a leg man you know.

You're right, some women can dress nice and still be low down. Then you have some that wear short skirts (too short) and are great women. That's cool, but women who wear really short skirts, I find it to be unattractive. It's actually a turn off to me. It just depends on the taste of the man.

[smc112]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Nope. I'm not one of those men who only date women who are completely covered. I like to see skin too. I am a leg man you know.

You're right, some women can dress nice and still be low down. Then you have some that wear short skirts (too short) and are great women. That's cool, but women who wear really short skirts, I find it to be unattractive. It's actually a turn off to me. It just depends on the taste of the man.

Actually, I normally stay away from wearing short stuff. Now, I will wear a tight pencil skirt or blue jeans. LOL Things tend to fit tight on me because I have a lot of curves. LOL Sometimes I will wear a shirt with the back out depending on the occasion. Like going out for a couple of drinks at night. I wouldn't wear a shirt with the back out during the day. That style is for night. I take Jessica Simpson's advice when it comes to clothes. She said if a woman is going to wear a top with the back out, she needs to wear some blue jeans or a long skirt. Never wear a back out top with a short skirt. Her other advice is if you are going to wear a short skirt, you need to wear a shirt that's covering you up on top or long-sleeves. Women start to look trampish if they combine wearing a back out top with a short skirt. If women follow those fashion tips, it will keep them from looking risqué. I just thought I might needed to add this info. Maybe it will help some of the women.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by smc112

Actually, I normally stay away from wearing short stuff. Now, I will wear a tight pencil skirt or blue jeans. LOL Things tend to fit tight on me because I have a lot of curves. LOL Sometimes I will wear a shirt with the back out depending on the occasion. Like going out for a couple of drinks at night. I wouldn't wear a shirt with the back out during the day. That style is for night. I take Jessica Simpson's advice when it comes to clothes. She said if a woman is going to wear a top with the back out, she needs to wear some blue jeans or a long skirt. Never wear a back out top with a short skirt. Her other advice is if you are going to wear a short skirt, you need to wear a shirt thetas covering you up on top or long-sleeves. Women start to look trampish if they combine wearing a back out top with a short skirt. If women follow those fashion tips, it will keep them from looking risqué'. I just thought I might needed to add this info. Maybe it will help some of the women.

I'm not into the backout style, but I love pencil skirts. I like blue jean skirts too.

[smc112]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I'm not into the backout style, but I love pencil skirts. I like blue jean skirts too.

Blue jean skirts aren't in. LOL

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by smc112

Blue jean skirts aren't in. LOL

They are where I live.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I'm not into the backout style, but I love pencil skirts. I like blue jean skirts too.

I remember you didn't know about pencil skirts a few months ago.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

I remember you didn't know about pencil skirts a few months ago.

I knew what they were, I just didn't know what they were called. Who said a joker can't learn something new on greekchat.