LB's/Dating/Frat Hoes

[Little32]

lol.

[starang21]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

You ain't neva effed love. Stop trynna ruin love's spiritual reputation.

love is a slore.

[smc112]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

When it comes to relationships, I think a lot of times people too often become consumed with the emotion of "romance", and very quickly after marriage, we find that the romance evaporates to reveal two very flawed jokers in a difficult world

I think what happens from the beginning in these relationships today, is people are quick to fall into romance, and then later, quick to bail out of commitment.

You have to ask yourself, is the man (I'm assuming you're a woman.) to whom you are attracted quick to give to others, or quick to go the 2nd mile in serving others? Or does this joker seem to live only for himself, withdraw the needs of others, or pretty much seek to satisfy himself only? A selfish, "do for me and don't ask me to do for you" joker is not someone you'll be happy with long term.

I hope you find the right man, if you haven't already.

In your first comment, that is exactly what happens when people are "lusting" after each other. When the spirit of lust leaves, people then start to realize that they don't have anything in common with the other individual. That is why I feel people should at least date two years before they marry. That way people will know if it is lust or actually love. Two years is a long enough time to see all sides of an individual. You also mentioned that a woman should seek after a man who has a servant's heart. It is funny that you mentioned that, because I dated a guy who was selfish and not a giver (or you could say cheap!) Two bad combinations! I didn't talk to him no longer than a couple of weeks. That really irritated me. Yeah, I would run for the hills if I sensed that a guy was selfish and cheap. Even Proverbs mentions not to eat the food of a cheap man because he is always thinking about the cost. LOL Anyway, a selfish person always takes and doesn't deposit anything back. You are right. I wasn't happy with that guy who was selfish, and I know from now on to watch those signs in men.

[Little32]

love is...knowing that love is not a slore.
You know you're the slore. That's why love won't eff with you.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by starang21

love is a slore.

"love" is a highway and i wanna riiiiiide it, all night long

[starang21]

Originally Posted by Little32

love is...knowing that love is not a slore.
You know you're the slore. That's why love won't eff with you.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by starang21

go away

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by smc112

In your first comment, that is exactly what happens when people are "lusting" after each other. When the spirit of lust leaves, people then start to realize that they don't have anything in common with the other individual. That is why I feel people should at least date two years before they marry. That way people will know if it is lust or actually love. Two years is a long enough time to see all sides of an individual. You also mentioned that a woman should seek after a man who has a servant's heart. It is funny that you mentioned that, because I dated a guy who was selfish and not a giver (or you could say cheap!) Two bad combinations! I didn't talk to him no longer than a couple of weeks. That really irritated me. Yeah, I would run for the hills if I sensed that a guy was selfish and cheap. Even Proverbs mentions not to eat the food of a cheap man because he is always thinking about the cost. LOL Anyway, a selfish person always takes and doesn't deposit anything back. You are right. I wasn't happy with that guy who was selfish, and I know from now on to watch those signs in men.

LOL at the cheap joker you were talking about. I'll have to read that one in Proverbs. That's hilarious but true.

I agree with what you said about the lust thing. To me, lust is like a fire. If you want to start a lasting fire, you're going to need some kindling, lighter fluid and firewood. If you have only the kindling and lighter fluid, which is like physical attraction and flat out sex, you'll be able to produce a big blaze of fire. The problem is, it may be warm and feel good temporarily, but the fire will go out in a matter of seconds or minutes. Just like it does when jokers start sleeping around.

I mentioned this in another thread. There's intensity and intimacy. People seem to get them confused. They're different. Intensity starts to fade away as the newness of the relationship wears off, but intimacy continues to grow more and more the longer you know a person. Like you said, intimacy is seeing what's truly on the inside of a person, which like you said, can only be discovered face to face over long periods of time.

To build a really good fire, you need some serious firewood to place on top of the kindling and lighter fluid. Do that, and it will burn for a long time. IMO, that's how a strong relationship should be. Long term.

Also, when you get a chance, check out Matthew 7:12. That's a good one.

Happy dating.

[smc112]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Also, when you get a chance, check out Matthew 7:12. That's a good one.

Happy dating.

Actually, the verse 11 was confirmation for me today. Thanks for the advice and Happy Dating to you also! Or are you married?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by smc112

Actually, the verse 11 was confirmation for me today. Thanks for the advice and Happy Dating to you also! Or are you married?

I'm glad it helped.

LOL
Nope, I'm not married.

[Professor]

i was a young whore once and have enjoyed many of same females as lb and friends. you do some dumb crazy stuff in life but you live, you learn, and you grow. now, i'm old and just like i would hear old folk say, "you eventually come in." my point is one should enjoy life but always be safe regardless if you are in a committed relationship or sleeping with every xyz on the yard.

Originally Posted by PrettySqueaky

This is the worst pick-up line I heard of the year 2000.

I was at a club when I met this guy. Come to find out we know the same people. Get this he was my bestfriend's Line Brother. I didn't want to come out and say I'm seeing your LB on the DL(down low.) So I said we were real good friends. So his reply: "Ya know LB's share everything." I was like "Ummmmmkay I'll make sure I tell him that tonight." Thinking that comment was lewd enough. He said something alone the lines, "Well it'll be your word against mine. So you might as well let me cut. And if he already hit, like I said LB's share everything." (replace hit and cut with F!@*.)


Second story. We were at this Step Show. Before I had a baby I was like 105-110 after I had him I was like 130. I was talking to this guy and he was like blah blah...kicking a little game. So I whispered to him don't you know me...I'm blah blah friend. He said oh well he's over here. And I was like, "Hi you doing?" gave him hug and what not. And his boy was just going on and on. And I was like "you're cute and all, but you don't remember me?" He's like "nah." Now blah blah getting hot. Like I know she ain't flirting were my bruh!!! I was like "oh I'm the mother of your Godson." His response, "Oh shyt 'bout time you started eating."

Just wanted to post something kind of funny. Question have ya'll ran into any situations with LB's concerning girls? Or do you have a set rule? I mean do LB's really share everything? What do you feel about frat-hoes?

This is off-key but related. I have a child by an Alpha and I told him out of respect for him I wouldn't date another one (that's going to be hard to do. Hello, are you an Alpha? just kidding.) He doesn't really have a comment on that, but he thinks it's strange and besides he knows I'm not trying to date anyone else right now.
But it's like I know of too many Alpha hoes and I don't want to be classified as one.

(My bestfriend thinks it's b-s and I shouldn't classify people based on that. I say b-s because he's an Alpha. And he knows I adore him to death, but he's still an Alpha.)

[sigmadiva]

Thanks Starang21, now I can never again walk into a Hallmark store with a straight face.

[1 BX Spring 87]

Forget the fellas, the ladies are just as bad. My ex-wife (we were college sweethearts the whole 9..I gave her the money to pledge AKA) has this line sister. Even after we were married she was still trying to throw some my way. She provide examples and "attempted" to offer samples of what she believed to be her far superior skills. I know the fellas look bad on this point and get caught more often, but the ladies do it in such a way that you feel bad if you tell. Even at 40, I still don't want it to be public knowledge of my turning down (even though I did), as she liked to call it, "the best thing since they came up with 20 pearls." NO JOKE!

[DSTCHAOS]

Huh?

[smc112]

Originally Posted by 1 BX Spring 87

Forget the fellas, the ladies are just as bad. My ex-wife (we were college sweethearts the whole 9..I gave her the money to pledge AKA) has this line sister. Even after we were married she was still trying to throw some my way. She provide examples and "attempted" to offer samples of what she believed to be her far superior skills. I know the fellas look bad on this point and get caught more often, but the ladies do it in such a way that you feel bad if you tell. Even at 40, I still don't want it to be public knowledge of my turning down (even though I did), as she liked to call it, "the best thing since they came up with 20 pearls." NO JOKE!

I guess this is your example of women of a sorority "sharing" everything? (As someone stated in a earlier post) The difference with men and women is that women aren't in agreement with sharing their men. I'm sure if your ex-wife found out that one of her line sister's tried to approach you in a sexual manner, she would be ready to jump on her line sister. Women are different when it comes to that type of stuff. I don't think sorority members "share" their men, like the fraternities members don't have a problem doing.