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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
I wasn't going on a tirade. I do have my own opinions and I am entitled to them as you are to yours. I'm not knocking the innocent people such as your friends who have caught STDs, but I am against the people who do cheat and sleep with everyone they meet. No, I don't live in a perfect world and I don't have a perfect girl, but one thing I can tell you is I don't sleep with every girl I date or start a relationship with. Time always tells how a person will be, because they can't hide behind the representative forever. So in turn I wait. There's more to a relationship than just sex. FWB (friends with benefits) there's too much of this crap going on today. How can a joker be friends with someone that he/she is screwing? That is so stupid to me. There has to be some kind of feelings there. If you're not going to get seriously involved with this person then don't be intimate with him/her. That just causes problems and on top of it, STDs. I don't have any remorse for people who catch STDs that have slept with every one they date. I always say they should have thought about that before the draws dropped.
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Disclaimer: The ideas you pose are causing my response. I am commenting on the universal "you"
FWB... Do you FCUK your Friends... Are you that hard up?
Well, can't a woman just sexually express herself? Who cares if she sleeps around?
I think the issue we are discuss runs deep. We lack love, generally. Namely, love for ourselves. I see that many kids lack the fundamental concept that when one connects sexually to a vile person, it predisposes them to contracting many a thing, first unwanted pregnancy. Aren't there enough kids thought to be unwanted in this world? Second thing is STI's from garden variety that are treatable to the untreatable or unknown it was an STI.
The more unprotected sexual expression occurs, the more at risk one puts oneself...
So, how does one break this cycle? Why do you think I talk about the "Tantra" and the "Kama Sutra". There is another old practice done in the Carribean that is reminscent of Afrikan Centeredness... I hate to make this a Christianity vs. "insert Spirituality here", but, the "Good Book" lacks teaching about the realness of sexual ectasy.
Now, to reroute thinking, sex did not evolved to be thinking activity. But it did evolved to be a "Spiritual" activity. The highest peak of senusualness. Just because one touches sensually, does not mean intercourse must take place, one can practice. But, the first part is love of God, others and oneself. Not to pinnacle arrogance, but self-care love to love another...
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