Oral Sex may cause throat cancer.

[PrettyBoy]

Hey, it's 2007 and it's that FWB garbage that's the in thing now. In return comes the STDs. Being committed to one person is a thing of the past, now jokers are getting throat cancer from oral sex. I wonder what will be next? I wonder how many jokers on GC had or have an STD.

[mulattogyrl]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Hey, it's 2007 and it's that FWB garbage that's the in thing now. In return comes the STDs. Being committed to one person is a thing of the past, now jokers are getting throat cancer from oral sex. I wonder what will be next? I wonder how many jokers on GC had or have an STD.

I don't know what FWB is, but STDs and cheating are nothing new. They've been around for centuries.

[AlethiaSi]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Hey, it's 2007 and it's that FWB garbage that's the in thing now. In return comes the STDs. Being committed to one person is a thing of the past, now jokers are getting throat cancer from oral sex. I wonder what will be next? I wonder how many jokers on GC had or have an STD.

Originally Posted by mulattogyrl

I don't know what FWB is, but STDs and cheating are nothing new. They've been around for centuries.

PB, i agree with Mulattogyrl, Idk what FWB is, but it's easy for you to judge about having an STD and I personally don't, however I do have friends that have had them and luckily been able to get medication to get rid of them. These people are not sexually promiscious and were in long term relationships, and their s.o. cheated or other similar situations.

My point is, you're taking an article as truth that isn't true (I myself did think that this could be true, but have since decided otherwise) and using it to go on your tirade. People are not always truthful, maybe in your perfect world, with your perfect girl, people don't cheat, no one has an STD and everything is great. However, that is not real life. Don't shove your ideals on other people and judge them for doing otherwise

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by AlethiaSi

PB, i agree with Mulattogyrl, Idk what FWB is, but it's easy for you to judge about having an STD and I personally don't, however I do have friends that have had them and luckily been able to get medication to get rid of them. These people are not sexually promiscious and were in long term relationships, and their s.o. cheated or other similar situations.

My point is, you're taking an article as truth that isn't true (I myself did think that this could be true, but have since decided otherwise) and using it to go on your tirade. People are not always truthful, maybe in your perfect world, with your perfect girl, people don't cheat, no one has an STD and everything is great. However, that is not real life. Don't shove your ideals on other people and judge them for doing otherwise

I wasn't going on a tirade. I do have my own opinions and I am entitled to them as you are to yours. I'm not knocking the innocent people such as your friends who have caught STDs, but I am against the people who do cheat and sleep with everyone they meet. No, I don't live in a perfect world and I don't have a perfect girl, but one thing I can tell you is I don't sleep with every girl I date or start a relationship with. Time always tells how a person will be, because they can't hide behind the representative forever. So in turn I wait. There's more to a relationship than just sex. FWB (friends with benefits) there's too much of this crap going on today. How can a joker be friends with someone that he/she is screwing? That is so stupid to me. There has to be some kind of feelings there. If you're not going to get seriously involved with this person then don't be intimate with him/her. That just causes problems and on top of it, STDs. I don't have any remorse for people who catch STDs that have slept with every one they date. I always say they should have thought about that before the draws dropped.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I wasn't going on a tirade. I do have my own opinions and I am entitled to them as you are to yours. I'm not knocking the innocent people such as your friends who have caught STDs, but I am against the people who do cheat and sleep with everyone they meet. No, I don't live in a perfect world and I don't have a perfect girl, but one thing I can tell you is I don't sleep with every girl I date or start a relationship with. Time always tells how a person will be, because they can't hide behind the representative forever. So in turn I wait. There's more to a relationship than just sex. FWB (friends with benefits) there's too much of this crap going on today. How can a joker be friends with someone that he/she is screwing? That is so stupid to me. There has to be some kind of feelings there. If you're not going to get seriously involved with this person then don't be intimate with him/her. That just causes problems and on top of it, STDs. I don't have any remorse for people who catch STDs that have slept with every one they date. I always say they should have thought about that before the draws dropped.

Disclaimer: The ideas you pose are causing my response. I am commenting on the universal "you"

FWB... Do you FCUK your Friends... Are you that hard up?

Well, can't a woman just sexually express herself? Who cares if she sleeps around?

I think the issue we are discuss runs deep. We lack love, generally. Namely, love for ourselves. I see that many kids lack the fundamental concept that when one connects sexually to a vile person, it predisposes them to contracting many a thing, first unwanted pregnancy. Aren't there enough kids thought to be unwanted in this world? Second thing is STI's from garden variety that are treatable to the untreatable or unknown it was an STI.

The more unprotected sexual expression occurs, the more at risk one puts oneself...

So, how does one break this cycle? Why do you think I talk about the "Tantra" and the "Kama Sutra". There is another old practice done in the Carribean that is reminscent of Afrikan Centeredness... I hate to make this a Christianity vs. "insert Spirituality here", but, the "Good Book" lacks teaching about the realness of sexual ectasy.

Now, to reroute thinking, sex did not evolved to be thinking activity. But it did evolved to be a "Spiritual" activity. The highest peak of senusualness. Just because one touches sensually, does not mean intercourse must take place, one can practice. But, the first part is love of God, others and oneself. Not to pinnacle arrogance, but self-care love to love another...

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Disclaimer: The ideas you pose are causing my response. I am commenting on the universal "you"

FWB... Do you FCUK your Friends... Are you that hard up?

Well, can't a woman just sexually express herself? Who cares if she sleeps around?

I think the issue we are discuss runs deep. We lack love, generally. Namely, love for ourselves. I see that many kids lack the fundamental concept that when one connects sexually to a vile person, it predisposes them to contracting many a thing, first unwanted pregnancy. Aren't there enough kids thought to be unwanted in this world? Second thing is STI's from garden variety that are treatable to the untreatable or unknown it was an STI.

The more unprotected sexual expression occurs, the more at risk one puts oneself...

So, how does one break this cycle? Why do you think I talk about the "Tantra" and the "Kama Sutra". There is another old practice done in the Carribean that is reminscent of Afrikan Centeredness... I hate to make this a Christianity vs. "insert Spirituality here", but, the "Good Book" lacks teaching about the realness of sexual ectasy.

Now, to reroute thinking, sex did not evolved to be thinking activity. But it did evolved to be a "Spiritual" activity. The highest peak of senusualness. Just because one touches sensually, does not mean intercourse must take place, one can practice. But, the first part is love of God, others and oneself. Not to pinnacle arrogance, but self-care love to love another...

No, I don't have sex with my friends. Yes, a woman can sexually express herself, but does she have to do it with multiple partners? Does she have to do it with her friends? Why can't it be done with one person and one person only? Somone that she loves and cares about.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

No, I don't have sex with my friends. Yes, a woman can sexually express herself, but does she have to do it with multiple partners? Does she have to do it with her friends? Why can't it be done with one person and one person only? Somone that she loves and cares about.

Okay, if she can sexually express herself, she can have any kind of partner she desires even if it is her friend.

Personally, I would not do that, but there are women who just think differently. And to talking to women that do, I know they psychologically hurt and feel that they can find love externally.

It can be done with one person within the bounds of a known commitment (verbal or legal).

Also, NO ONE can love or care about anyone unless he or she loves and cares about his or herself. Period. That is the prerequisite for a relationship. You cannot have that, unless you love yourself. And just because you love yourself sufficiently does not mean your mate to be is ready...