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[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Okay, if she can sexually express herself, she can have any kind of partner she desires even if it is her friend.

Personally, I would not do that, but there are women who just think differently. And to talking to women that do, I know they psychologically hurt and feel that they can find love externally.

It can be done with one person within the bounds of a known commitment (verbal or legal).

Also, NO ONE can love or care about anyone unless he or she loves and cares about his or herself. Period. That is the prerequisite for a relationship. You cannot have that, unless you love yourself. And just because you love yourself sufficiently does not mean your mate to be is ready...

If she wants to do the FWB thing, then she can go right ahead and risk getting an STD. Hey, it's the in thing for 07', 08', 09' ect. ect.

Yes, I couldn't agree more. You have to love yourself before you can love someone else. I was in a bad relationship like that.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

If she wants to do the FWB thing, then she can go right ahead and risk getting an STD. Hey, it's the in thing for 07', 08', 09' ect. ect.

Personally, IMO, FWB for women is a sexual and psychological vampirism. What happens when a woman falls for the FWB that she is fooling around with?

And if this is what the young folks like to do in the 200- whatever, then all the research and programs dedicated to eliminating illnesses seem to not work...

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Personally, IMO, FWB for women is a sexual and psychological vampirism. What happens when a woman falls for the FWB that she is fooling around with?

And if this is what the young folks like to do in the 200- whatever, then all the research and programs dedicated to eliminating illnesses seem to not work...

That's my whole point. I can't see how two people can screw as friends and nothing else without someone wanting more. I don't think people are created that way. Most animals have sex without any ties. People that do this, I would have to put them in the animal category. That's a silly comment but I don't know what else to call it. To me it's just stupid to screw and that's it. Me personally, I have to have something there. I have to be connected to her mentally during and after the physical part. I can't just have sex and get up and say thanks and leave, only to come back for seconds when I'm aroused.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

That's my whole point. I can't see how two people can screw as friends and nothing else without someone wanting more. I don't think people are created that way. Most animals have sex without any ties. People that do this, I would have to put them in the animal category. That's a silly comment but I don't know what else to call it. To me it's just stupid to screw and that's it. Me personally, I have to have something there. I have to be connected to her mentally during and after the physical part. I can't just have sex and get up and say thanks and leave, only to come back for seconds when I'm aroused.

Well, I would be the wrong person who says anything regarding this. But I do know most women that "go for it"--not all--have suffered sexual violence, such as child sex abuse, rape and other things. That doesn't absolve them, but, it is the underlying reason why some women allow themselves to be prostituted like that.

Animals do not "screw" randomly, they usually are in heat and they usually do it because reproduction. It is thought that only the human animal has sex for other reasons than procreation.

Most women lie to themselves when they say no connection to their sexual partner. Most women need that connection in order to function sanely.

[cheerfulgreek]

This thread has gotten off topic. PB and AKA Monet hijacked it. JK

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Well, I would be the wrong person who says anything regarding this. But I do know most women that "go for it"--not all--have suffered sexual violence, such as child sex abuse, rape and other things. That doesn't absolve them, but, it is the underlying reason why some women allow themselves to be prostituted like that.

Animals do not "screw" randomly, they usually are in heat and they usually do it because reproduction. It is thought that only the human animal has sex for other reasons than procreation.

Most women lie to themselves when they say no connection to their sexual partner. Most women need that connection in order to function sanely.

Right. Most animals mate during mating season. When people have sex with nothing there, it looks the same way to me. I know people mate for pleasure, but to me, to do it and just get up and leave is just as trifling as a dog mating with another dog and then leaving and looking for another one to mate with. That's the way it is. These same people then wonder how they got an STD. The part that makes me mad is when they give it to someone who wants more than just the sex.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Right. Most animals mate during mating season. When people have sex with nothing there, it looks the same way to me. I know people mate for pleasure, but to me, to do it and just get up and leave is just as trifling as a dog mating with another dog and then leaving and looking for another one to mate with. That's the way it is. These same people then wonder how they got an STD. The part that makes me mad is when they give it to someone who wants more than just the sex.

So, it is my understanding regarding animals that lack "fidelity" and have sex with any and everything, like Chimps and Dogs, have sex that way because they are trying to ensure to promotion of their genes. The males want to make sure their genes are transmitted. As far as the females go, it is a non issue to them. They have an estrus cycle without a sense of "morality".

However, there are animals that "mate for life". Like a shrew and a sea bird. These animals, if you put them with other mates, will NEVER mate. Occassionaly, the mice will do the same thing every now and then. Never mate with a different one.

But as far as STD's. Well, Chimps are the major vector for the first strain of HIV-1 that then mutated to HIV-2 and possibly HIV-3.

But, I don't think most people absolutely WANT to transmit their STI to others, most people don't know they have a STI until it is actually something like HIV infection and they come down with something huge.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

So, it is my understanding regarding animals that lack "fidelity" and have sex with any and everything, like Chimps and Dogs, have sex that way because they are trying to ensure to promotion of their genes. The males want to make sure their genes are transmitted. As far as the females go, it is a non issue to them. They have an estrus cycle without a sense of "morality".

However, there are animals that "mate for life". Like a shrew and a sea bird. These animals, if you put them with other mates, will NEVER mate. Occassionaly, the mice will do the same thing every now and then. Never mate with a different one.

But as far as STD's. Well, Chimps are the major vector for the first strain of HIV-1 that then mutated to HIV-2 and possibly HIV-3.

But, I don't think most people absolutely WANT to transmit their STI to others, most people don't know they have a STI until it is actually something like HIV infection and they come down with something huge.

Dolphins stay with only one too, and they actually mate for pleasure like humans. I'll lay off the animal thing. Other members are going to see this and then this thread is going to turn into a train wreck.

What I'm getting at is this. For example when I was in undergrad, if I went out with a woman my brothers would say "Did you bone her?" Or I would hear guys talk about how many women they screwed. Comments like, "Oh yeah, I boned her. Man if you can stay in that longer than 15 minutes, then I'll give you a trophy. She's got some good @@#$." Then laugh about it. Why is that funny and cool? People are just scared to get in a serious relationship. When I date, I date to see if this is a woman that I can court long term. Hopefully to see if it's someone I can see spending a lifetime with through marriage. If she's not that kind of a girl, I'm not just going to screw her and be out. I'll move on to the next woman.

For the jokers who don't know they have an STD, obviously they either have been with multiple partners, or have slept with a trifling joker that gave it to them. Either way, the draws were probably dropped too early.