Always a PNM, never a sister.

[AOII Angel]

I completely agree. Nothing adds up. There were always girls that we wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole that we would be happy to see infect our competitor (yeah, panhellism only goes so far.) so I just doubt that this one letter would stop EVERY group from giving her a chance. Something else is going on.

ETA: from the description of your results the first two years, what ever the reason, this isn't going to happen for you. I'm sorry, I really am, but you haven't even made it to the pref round. As a junior, your odds are not improving...and you are known. Continue your involvement in other campus orgs, make friends and enjoy life. A sorority is not the only way to have a meaningful college experience.