UCLA SPRING RECRUITMENT

[mahdian]

hey everyone! im interested in ucla's spring recruitment, but there are a few issues. im really interested in joining one of two houses this spring, but they are only doing cob dinners for recruitment. i know a few girls in each house and was wondering how i would go about trying to get invited to a cob event without creeping anyone out. im really friendly and outgoing, so i honestly have no problem just outright asking them for an invite, but obviously i dont want it to sound weird, desperate, or creepy to them. a few girls on juicycampus and collegeconfidential posts just said to outright ask the girls if you know them... but im a little hesitant about this since i dont know how they would react. if i were in there position, i would be totally happy to help a girl out- i just dont know if they would do the same.

also, if you dont mind, could anyone explain to me a little bit how cob dinners go? perhaps specifically at ucla? what are the expectations? i only know like 4 girls in each house, in one 3 are sophomores and 1 is a senior, and in the other i know mostly freshmen and sophomores. do you think this is going to be a detrimental thing? also, i dont know how to convey to the girls that i really want it without being overly obsessive- im a really cool girl and im social and im fun, im very into school and grades but i like to go out as well... i guess its just a little difficult for me to portray all of my personality in such a short period of time (and i definitely know what to discuss and what not to discuss!!!). sorry im going on and on! basically... do you have any advice?