odd question

[lyrica9]

mmk, so i have a roommate issue, and i need some help. one of my roommates keeps taking my adpi cups to house parties, and she keeps bothering me about giving her some of my old shirts. she is not greek, and when we first moved in she told me and our other roommate (a pi phi alum) that she hated sororities. so yeah... a little confused, she hates sororities, but she wants to wear my letters? and it's not just that, but that it's only my letters, she doesn't ask our other roommate to wear her old pi phi stuff, or use her pi phi cups for drinking. why me??

so yeah... i'm a little confused as to why she's so keen to wear my shirts, and wanted to see if anyone had any suggestions on how to nicely ask for the shirts she's "borrowed" (quotations because i didn't say she could, she just did) back. i feel bad because i do like her, and i want to be nice, but i also feel kind of weird about her taking my shirts.

i guess because i'm worried she might pretend to be a member? i'm pretty sure she wouldn't, but you never know. the only woman i've ever let wear my letters is my cousin who is practically my sister and is my bestfriend. far cry from a woman i just met two months ago because she was roommate matched into my apartment.

i feel nagging and kind of mean when i ask her to not use my sorority cups, and i am really clueless on how to approach the whole tshirt issue, so any suggestions? or am i just worrying too much about nothing?