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Originally Posted by FirstAndFinest
Have you considered bringing this woman to a COR event? Maybe she wants to wear that diamond, too?
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Can't take her to COR because my new chapter doesn't COR, and she doesn't go to my school. plus, while we're friends, i don't think she'd be a person i'd invite to join adpi. she's a great girl, but not every friend can be a good sister.
On the other tips and comments:
she did ask to borrow the shirts, and i made non-commital comments that were neither yes or no. and i told her she could go through a drawer of my old youth group shirts and wear those, and a few *superugly* old adpi shirts were in that drawer as well so i guess she thought they were fair game.
clarification on the cups incident, she does know the rules about no drinking in letters, and i found out she hasn't been drinking in them. when i confronted her about the cups yesterday she said "sorry i took it to work with me, and it was just water, promise." buuuuuuut tonight she walked into the apartment completely drunk, beer in hand, wearing one of my bidday shirts. exciting.
so yeah, as soon as we're both here i'm going to ask for my shirts back. which will be hard, because i'll probably have to deal with the question of 'why do i want them back if i think they're so ugly and i never wear them.' but i think i can handle it.