You're worrying too much. Just be direct, tell her it isn't cool, that you do like her, but ADPi things are meant for ADPi members only and she's not to take or use any of your things without asking, and you regret not making that clear when you all moved into the apartment.
If you don't tell her and be direct about it because you're afraid she'll get mad, you're being a sissy. You need to stand up for yourself. Sure, she is bound to be unreasonable, in which case you deal with it head on, put a lock on your door or transfer into a different apartment unit. Tell her that you know she took your stuff without asking, you're upset and you want it back. Then put your ADPi things in your room.
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