AI Sponsor Dilemma
Hi there! I'm 30 and headed into the Alpha Chi Omega AI process. My sponsor is (um...was?) one of my good friends from college. However, she was pregnant with twins, and just experienced a very traumatic and very early delivery. She has been told that her miracle babies will be in the nicu for probably another 4+ months, and to expect physical challenges when they eventually come home. I am supporting her, crying and laughing right along with her at this time, but this poses a problem for my potential AI. (And seriously, I feel awful for even thinking about this while she has all of that going on) I am IN NO WAY GOING TO BRING THIS UP TO HER---this is why I'm asking here. Would it be better to wait until she is able to be my sponsor...potentially a year+ from now OR is it possible to find a new sponsor? I truly cannot ask her to refer me to someone right now, so would I contact the nearest alum chapter?
Thank you!
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