It would depend on the way A Chi O does their AI program. If like Gamma Phi you are extended an invitation by the chapter, and not an individual, I would ask the chapter for guidance. It may be that they have a policy in place.
I don't see this as "CHOSE YOUR FRIEND OR THE SORORITY!!!". I would hope that she is joining Alpha Chi Omega for many reasons, and not just because her friend is one. It would be possible to continue her involvement with the chapter AND support her friend - just as she would for any sister.
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