How to make it work?

[lechat]

So, I got a bid today to a house that I didn't feel a huge connection with through recruitment. Out of all of the houses though, it was my second choice. I went to pref night to this house and my top choice.

My FIRST choice - I absolutely loved/felt at home/loved the girls there. It was really heartbreaking for me to open the bid because I felt like everything was so sure there.

While, the second.. I feel like i've only had good conversations with maybe two girls and those were all outside of recruitment. I'm not very comfortable there and I feel like I don't have a lot in common with anyone.

I am thankful that the second house chose me, but I feel terrible that I'm not as excited as everyone who just knew that it was their home.

Any advice?