Truth and your relationship

[Xanthus]

Originally Posted by 33girl

If I met someone on the internet, I'd be background checking him before I even met him. I've learned from others' mistakes. I'm talking a guy who lives far away, not someone who I happened to meet online who lives in the next neighborhood over.

If you never met him, how would you know who to look up? He'd be pretty stupid to give up all of his info to a chick he never met.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

...would anyone ever consider having a background check on someone and if so under what circumstances?

Nope, that's not necessary. I just generally look at her family background. I listen to see how much she talks about her dad and the things she says about him, and how close she is to him. How she treats him is generally how she'll treat me. I look at how she treats both of her parents, and how her parents treat each other. How close she is to her siblings (if she has any). Her family background (how she treats her mother and father) is enough of a "background check" for me. It's all about her upbringing.