kissing girls... - Page 3

KappaTarzan · #31 11-09-2002, 03:38 PM

i personally have never been attracted to woman, but i agreed that no one is 100% one way... i personally am strongly attracted to men, so i'm not sure if i could ever go to women.. i don't think so but you enver know

SilverTurtle · #32 11-09-2002, 05:07 PM

You won't find me involved in a relationship (physical, emotional, etc.) with another woman. It just doesn't feel right. Plus I've been happy with my boyfriend of 5 years.

And to be honest, I'm one of those girls that always had more guy friends, I find hanging out with girls a lot kind of annoying, etc. So I can't imagine any kind of romantic pairing where I'd spend long amounts of time with a woman. LOL!

Now, I have kissed other girls (friends) for some of the reasons listed previosly (namely, free drinks) knowing that it wouldn't ever go any further.

I was at a Halloween party a couple weeks ago. It was a gay party. There were about 5 straight people there including myself. As the night progressed, one these allegedly gay men asked my friend and I if we were a couple. We told him no, we're both straight, and my friend was there with her boyfried. So awhile later this guy decides we (my friend and I) should kiss. We were like "no" (I mean, it wasn't like we weren't already getting all the free drinks we wanted!) and he just kept pushing the subject. So my friend says something like "If I won't do it for a straight man what makes you think I'd do it for a gay one?" And then I chimed in with something about gay men weren't even suppossed to like lesbians. Then the guy got pissed and left as alone. But it was way weirder than when straight guys are trying to get 2 girls to kiss.

aprilxo · #33 11-09-2002, 05:11 PM

You know, I will admit to finding some women attractive. Not in the man-I-want-her way, but "WOW--she's really good looking." Haven't ever kissed any of them--but it's fun to joke about with the boys, let them wonder if we really do have those nakie pillow fights in our house tee hee...

HotDamnImAPhiMu · #34 11-09-2002, 11:53 PM

Hahaha, I swear they think that we do!

Do you all think it's cheating if you've got a boyfriend and you kiss a girl?

Kevin · #35 11-10-2002, 12:00 AM

Personally I'd not call it cheating... not exactly... Especially if I'm there and encouraging it

It would depend on the relationship though. If I really cared I don't think I'd encourage it because I've seen perfectly good relationships ruined by issues stirred up by this (one marriage even).

aprilxo · #36 11-10-2002, 12:04 AM

I dunno, but I feel a potential double standard brewing! lol

I'd say it's "cheating"--but if one's guy doesn't care if ya kiss another chick then it wouldn't be a big deal. I think that if he doesn't care about kissing chicks he shouldn't care about kissing other guys though. If he cares then yeah it's cheating, if not then no.

Then I think that as long as it's all or nothing (not discriminating between it being ok to kiss guys or girls), then I'd say it's fair and people can/will do whatever they want *shrug*

#37 11-10-2002, 12:06 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Hootie
Funny you should ask this question!
My former boss in Austin had been previously married (twice) and after forming a friendship with a lesbian, decided to for a romantic relationship with her.

That's Austin for you

Just playin Hootie and all the Austinites in the crowd.

Kitso
KS 361 drinks guys buy for kissing girls in bars

AngelPhiSig · #38 11-10-2002, 09:45 AM

Kissing girls... Ive kissed friends on the lips - just cos thats how I was raised, kiss family on the lips, kiss friends on the lips... guys and girls - although dont kiss guys with girl friends on the lips!

Now Clarion is in the PA Bible belt... and they have a problem with gays, but not so much that there arent a million and a half gay men here (yea, sucks to be a single female whos friends with them all!) But there arent that many "out" lesbians here... and you also dont every see two straight girls kissing at the bar for drinks... I think its weird that two guys being together is more accepted than two women... and that its not equal... double standards are a bitch!

shultzz · #39 11-11-2002, 02:37 PM

Enough of the kissing stories. Which of you girls has gone all the way? I am picturing a pillow fight. One thing leads to another and baboom.

sororitygirl2 · #40 11-11-2002, 10:43 PM

I will be honest... I've seen my friends participate in a naked pillowfight or two! But that is all they did... they just thought it was a funny joke.

UDZETA · #41 12-27-2002, 04:21 PM

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Originally posted by shultzz
Enough of the kissing stories. Which of you girls has gone all the way? I am picturing a pillow fight. One thing leads to another and baboom.

Boy, I can't tell you how many naked pillow fights I have been in!!! (I'm joking for the record) But I have kissed my girl friends before. Nothing more then that but a lots of girls who are not gay have kissed other women. No biggie. I do think some women get tried of men and want to try something new...and a woman is just what they need sometimes. What an interesting thread....

HotDamnImAPhiMu · #42 12-28-2002, 12:50 AM

My boss is 32 and was telling me about "the one that got away." I asked why they broke up -- turned out she had a girlfriend the entire time they dated, all above-board, he knew all about it, just couldn't deal.

Interesting, huh? It's like she considered a girlfriend entirely different than a romantic relationship with a man.

Aquastar · #43 04-28-2003, 09:52 AM

Ive kissed girls.
Ive done more than kiss girls.
Actually I kinda like girls.
And my girlfriend happens to be in a sorority ... and on GC when she bothers comming on line.

:turns red:

White_Chocolate · #44 04-28-2003, 09:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by swissmiss04
Not to be crude, but a quote from my friend Courtney pretty much sums up my feelings:
"I would be a lesbian, but I crave the d*ck too much."

my sentiments exactly

Eirene_DGP · #45 04-28-2003, 11:59 AM

I think in this day and age people are way too homophobic. Some people who are straight and have been so their entire lives could fall in love with someone of the same sex. In regards to the kissing girls issue, I also think it is a cultural issue as well. My mother's side is Italian and my female cousins do not think twice about kissing other girls on the lips, while some other cultures stop at the cheek. But as some of the other posters admitted to kissing other girls, I don't think that makes you a lesbian.