My Love Life Sucks...since 10th grade!!

[pinkies up]

Please read my story in the Confessions section. I was that crazy in love fool who went to the house of the other girl and could've gotten killed over some boy who didn't give a dayum about me. I know it's hard to leave sometimes, but I thank God I came to my senses. I would neva think about doing anything like that now. Let.him.go and don't hold this man's actions against the next one.

[AKA_Monet]

SF Bella--

I apologize, but are you serious? This sounds like some juvenile-azzed chit that well, is a bit over the top...

Lemme put it to you 'nother way... Is the I-C-K-D dat gooyud? 'Cuz FF's stuff would have to swingin' for fathom thinkin' 'bout him... I'd sue him for endangering my life if it was me... I'd dayum sho would take him to court.

He is demonic and homegirl is a Sith Lord... She can't have her way with him and has twisted his mind to trick the first victim into their twisted groove-fest...

Hayle, I'd be crazy enuf to have dat chit that happened posted on his file to get him kicked off the force... "They" don't take too kindly to the lunacy...

As far as girlfriend, let her go. That imagination is all she has in life. Pity her. 'Cuz really, NO I-C-K-D is worth that much drama, even if it was Platinum-coated.

[neosoul]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

He is demonic and homegirl is a Sith Lord...

lol...... not a Sith lord....

[pinkies up]

LMAO @ Soror AKA Monet!!!

[BellaSF]

Originally Posted by RedefinedDiva

Had it REALLY been over and she was just some crazy, deranged chick, 911 would have been on dial from the very first ding dong. She had time to ring the doorbell, knock on the door, bang on the door, rifle through the trash, throw bottle, bust out a windshield, and scratch a car.... ALL BEFORE HE CALLED THE COPS. Then after all this drama, he didn't press charges? Not even for disturbing the peace? Not even to set an exapmle that he is tired of her being a crazy "ex" girlfriend?

He dialed 911 when she first started by throwing the Heinken glass bottles at his house. Resulting in his front windows being completely shaterred and $300 door being seriously dented up(I didn't mention that part since he didn't bother to press charges). Then she turned her attention to my Kia Spectra (my very 1st car!). I wouldn't sue him because I'm sure he didn't know deep down inside that she was a jealous infested psychotic moron...plus he served in Iraq for 2 years. The only thing that shocked me (other than him being mad at me for pressing charges) was that she's a daycare worker! What does she do when the lil' kids make her mad? Throw toys at them?

[BellaSF]

Today was that ghetto girl's arraignment (court) date. I went just to see what she was going to plead. When she saw me it was obvious that she was slightly aggitated. She kept on looking at me but I paid her no mind because I don't mess with trashy people...especially those that riffle through the trash can (that was mean I know...oh well).She saw my long hair was down she took her artificial hair out of it ponytail and tried to copy my hair style. She went up to the judge stating how she was remorseful...if so why no apologies? Why you making Larry* send me threatening e-mails? Why didn't you step up to me like a WOMAN that night and apologize then and there instead talking about my car and me? I wouldn't have pressed charges if she did that. I told the judge about her. I didn't want to tell the entire story because I didn't want her to get into too much trouble(I'm too nice...I know). To make the story short she recieved 6 months probation, has to pay court costs($242), repair my vehicle(almost $600) and her crazy behind was ordered to stay away from me. If she doesn't she violates her probation...and that means jail time. I'm so happy this drama is over and I passed all my classes. Oh!! And yes...Larry* STILL calls me. What a jerk!

[lovelyivy84]

Originally Posted by BellaSF

Today was that ghetto girl's arraignment (court) date. I went just to see what she was going to plead. When she saw me it was obvious that she was slightly aggitated. She kept on looking at me but I paid her no mind because I don't mess with trashy people...especially those that riffle through the trash can (that was mean I know...oh well).She saw my long hair was down she took her artificial hair out of it ponytail and tried to copy my hair style. She went up to the judge stating how she was remorseful...if so why no apologies? Why you making Larry* send me threatening e-mails? Why didn't you step up to me like a WOMAN that night and apologize then and there instead talking about my car and me? I wouldn't have pressed charges if she did that. I told the judge about her. I didn't want to tell the entire story because I didn't want her to get into too much trouble(I'm too nice...I know). To make the story short she recieved 6 months probation, has to pay court costs($242), repair my vehicle(almost $600) and her crazy behind was ordered to stay away from me. If she doesn't she violates her probation...and that means jail time. I'm so happy this drama is over and I passed all my classes. Oh!! And yes...Larry* STILL calls me. What a jerk!

Wow drama.

Just wanted to point out that there is no way she is 'making' a grown ass man send you threatening emails, sorry. You need to change your number and make sure those fools don't get the new one.

I missed out on this post when it first came around, but had a question- why did you stay friends with him in the first place after you found out he had decieved you/another woman? I mean, I just can't imagine being friends with someone who tried to play me from jump. Not AIM friends, not friendly phone buddies, nothing.

[BellaSF]

Because I'm too darn nice. That's a big problem for me.

[Jody]

You sound like you're a really great person and truly blessed. Sometimes when we have much, we feel the need to want to not isolate ourselves and want to give everyone an opportunity to be our friend. If you REALLY want to be friends with this guy, he has to EARN your friendship. He never will if you reward him with your friendship when he doesn't deserve it. Anyone who would put you in this kind of danger is NOT your friend. If you cut him off (no communication - just ignore him!!! I know it's hard but you GOT TO!) he will learn that to be around "better behaving folks" he himself has to do better.


All you're teaching him is that he can be an azz and still get the "good" girl.

[thesweetestone]

Please leave this man alone before you get physcially hurt. Please just move on.

[AKA_Monet]

^^^^What she said:

Originally Posted by thesweetestone

Please leave this man alone before you get physcially hurt. Please just move on.

It is called domestic violence and abuse. Both of them have problems. And you are enabling... You are in a co-dependent relationship with the fool. Then, he is suckin' up all the drama between homegirl and you... You have been "set up" by him.

Like I asked before: Is the sex that good? Is his penis that sweet? Does it pay your bills and empower you to victory's heights?

Because really, life's short. You don't need anyone to treat like do-do. You can do that better by yourself. Why would you need to have anyone else do it for you? And why would you want to treat yourself like chit?

[delph998]

Let these lyrics resonate with you:

Me myself and I
That's all I got in the end
That's what I found out
And it ain't no need to cry
I took a vow that from now on
I'm gonna be my own best friend

Push that dude to the side. You are so much better than even conversing with him on the phone. I am extremely nice like you too. But like I've said in previous post, once you learn you should do better. He doesn't even deserve five seconds of your time. So again...

Me myself and I
That's all I got in the end
That's what I found out
And it ain't no need to cry
I took a vow that from now on
I'm gonna be my own best friend

I hope you take heed. Not just in this instance, but for future instances as well.

You got this girl!

[BellaSF]

Thanks for the advice everyone. Merry Christmas!