Open Letter VI

[TonyB06]

Originally posted by ARTIC-U-LATE
Fo' sho, she is real about hers. Did you get that PM i sent?

yes. I thought I responded back. If he was at the last chapter meeting I missed him because I wasn't there. Hope he didn't miss the Wine Sip we had w/ the AKAs.

PM me his digits and I'll be sure to catch up with him.

06.

[Honeykiss1974]

Originally posted by ARTIC-U-LATE
Furthermore, I will rethink bringing ladies on my team to family events. Asking my date was that her hair was NOT COOL AT ALL. (shit was funny though ).

ROTFL

[toocute]

Thanks for the hugs

[FeeFee]

Originally posted by ARTIC-U-LATE
Moms...

Asking my date was that her hair was NOT COOL AT ALL. (shit was funny though ).

Your Son,
Artic-u-late

Sooooo, was that her hair or what?
*running*

Sorry, you don't have to answer. Story was funny though.

[#1 Leading Lady]

Originally posted by FeeFee
Sooooo, was that her hair or what?
*running*

Sorry, you don't have to answer. Story was funny though.

Whatever...I want to know her response...Real or Fake....Spill the beans

[MeezDiscreet]

to furniture liquidators: I'M EFFING MAD!!!!! i understand that i had a "special order" but you told me i would have my furniture within 2 weeks. my order was placed June 4 EMM-EFFAS!!!!!!!!! it's been a emm-effing month and i still don't have my isht!!! i'm pissed off beyond reasoning. i will burn that emm-effa down, DON'T EFF WITH ME!!! i'm coming up there TODAY with my damn boots on cuz somebody is about to feel the wrath in person--eff this phone business. I.AM.MAD!!!!!!!

to GC: sorry, i'm not a sailor. i just cuss like one when i get mad

[RedVelvet]

Dear Ms. Thang:

Aren't you the one who cried about how you wanted to change your life and you grew up without any guidance, blah, blah blah?

So when a mother of our church humbly and respectfully approaches you about your-ahem-wardrobe, your response is "this boo-tee-yay costed more than your entire outfit"? WOW.

You really do need Jesus.


__________________

[LibraStar]

To: N.S.

Well, you called me when I was on my business trip and asked me to come home. You sounded like you weren't playing so I did.

We've been friends for 19 years...19 years is a long time, but today, I'm sad to say, I need to put some serious distance to our friendship. No one knows better than I the loniless involved with being a single parent, for when you guys were out having a good time living your lives as moms and girlfriends, I sat home, often babysitting for you when you were out with the girls at the club. Just me, my baby and your kids too. Never wanted pass judgement on what you were doing, but awfully content on just being mom and auntie. I told you about yourself, as a friend should when I just couldn't stand to see you do wrong, but still, hey, we were friends. I've asked you time and time again to watch who you brought around your dayum kids. Not everyone is fit to meet your kids - not everyone is fit to be in your house...your kid's house. You just thought I was nagging. You thought that I thought everyone's lives should end because we brought kids in the world. Not true, but there should be a balance, girl. You knew my views on all that shackin you were doing, and no, I didn't approve, but heck, I'm not your mama and I sure am not the Lord, so you do you and I'll do me. Yes, I'm overprotective of my child. It's a crazy world out there. Yes, I'm leary of people wanting to get in too good with me and my son. Yes I go out from time to time, but you better believe I don't spend more time shakin my arse at the club than I do at home with my child. So why do we find ourselves at a crossroads today N? Because 2 years ago, when I saw my nephew put into the ground I SWORE to myself I would never see another baby laid to rest and I find myself cringing because one week from today, I have to watch you put your baby in the ground because that man you let in your house did something to that child and killed him while you were out taking care of some legitimate business. I TOLD YOU to keep these dudes away from your kids, not that I would have ever imagined that anything this bad would have happened, it just didn't look good. My nephew was a sick baby, he needed to go and be with the Lord so he didn't have to suffer anymore...yours didn't have to die. For you to say you aren't mad at him because this could have been an accident - that this could have happened anyway??? BULL. If you aren't mad and ready to fight, hell (excuse the language) I am. I'm crying and my heart is broken because of this. I do not, I repeat DO NOT want to see another child go into the ground prematurely. This was not directly your fault, I understand that, but this could have been prevented. Look at the fallout. Your other child person is now stuck in the system. Sometimes YOU. JUST. DONT. THINK. I'm sick, I'm tired and I wish I would have never gotten on that plane to come back home. I'm still gonna love you..just from afar.

Sorry everyone...I had to vent.

[Dionysus]

To a certain cousin: BLEEEEEEEEP you!!! For once my father was right about someone having a stick far up their arse.

[Wonderful1908]

Originally posted by LibraStar
To: N.S.

Well, you called me when I was on my business trip and asked me to come home. You sounded like you weren't playing so I did.

We've been friends for 19 years...19 years is a long time, but today, I'm sad to say, I need to put some serious distance to our friendship. No one knows better than I the loniless involved with being a single parent, for when you guys were out having a good time living your lives as moms and girlfriends, I sat home, often babysitting for you when you were out with the girls at the club. Just me, my baby and your kids too. Never wanted pass judgement on what you were doing, but awfully content on just being mom and auntie. I told you about yourself, as a friend should when I just couldn't stand to see you do wrong, but still, hey, we were friends. I've asked you time and time again to watch who you brought around your dayum kids. Not everyone is fit to meet your kids - not everyone is fit to be in your house...your kid's house. You just thought I was nagging. You thought that I thought everyone's lives should end because we brought kids in the world. Not true, but there should be a balance, girl. You knew my views on all that shackin you were doing, and no, I didn't approve, but heck, I'm not your mama and I sure am not the Lord, so you do you and I'll do me. Yes, I'm overprotective of my child. It's a crazy world out there. Yes, I'm leary of people wanting to get in too good with me and my son. Yes I go out from time to time, but you better believe I don't spend more time shakin my arse at the club than I do at home with my child. So why do we find ourselves at a crossroads today N? Because 2 years ago, when I saw my nephew put into the ground I SWORE to myself I would never see another baby laid to rest and I find myself cringing because one week from today, I have to watch you put your baby in the ground because that man you let in your house did something to that child and killed him while you were out taking care of some legitimate business. I TOLD YOU to keep these dudes away from your kids, not that I would have ever imagined that anything this bad would have happened, it just didn't look good. My nephew was a sick baby, he needed to go and be with the Lord so he didn't have to suffer anymore...yours didn't have to die. For you to say you aren't mad at him because this could have been an accident - that this could have happened anyway??? BULL. If you aren't mad and ready to fight, hell (excuse the language) I am. I'm crying and my heart is broken because of this. I do not, I repeat DO NOT want to see another child go into the ground prematurely. This was not directly your fault, I understand that, but this could have been prevented. Look at the fallout. Your other child person is now stuck in the system. Sometimes YOU. JUST. DONT. THINK. I'm sick, I'm tired and I wish I would have never gotten on that plane to come back home. I'm still gonna love you..just from afar.

Sorry everyone...I had to vent.

I'm sorry to hear this. I know how frustrating it can be to have a good friend who is not putting her kids first. Not to the point of death though. I am sad to read this.

[Kamryn]

To those who are concerned about my body:

I wish you would stop commenting on my weight. I may not be as healthy as you want me to be, but it doesn't do much for my self esteem. Just because I gained a few pounds within the last few years, doesn't mean that I'm going to explode any minute now. I stand at 5'6 weighing in at about 140lbs. I don't think that's an alarming size. It may be alarming at the rate I gained the weight, but it's been stable for some time now, and who knows, maybe this summer it may decline. What I don't understand is how one person can say I look like I lost a lot of weight, and less than five minutes later someone else walks in the room and says something like, "Wow, look at those hips! You look like you packed on a few pounds!" or "You're starting to take your mother and your grandmother's shape, flat and wide!" I've been listening to this b/s for almost three years now. It's starting to get irritating!

(Obesity runs on both my maternal and paternal sides of the family, but I remain active to keep my metabolism going and maintain pretty good eating habits. I understand their concern, but sometimes they over do it a bit.)

[Eclipse]

T: Grow up and handle your responsibilities and stop thinking everything happens to you. It's your fault you are in this situation. I promise that sticking your head in the sand does not make problems go away! I'm still praying that you will see yourself as God sees you

B: Grow up! You are 21 now, living on your own. Ignoring phone calls (especially from family) is childish. I know you are mad, but you gottta learn to stand on your own 2 feet. I still love you!

C: I'm worried about you man. Seriously, but I know I can no longer enable your behavior. If you end up homeless you are NOT--I repeat NOT living with me! (Please God, don't make me have to eat those words)

K: Y'all getting on my nerves! Fish and house guests start to stink after 3 days and y'all have been here for 7. And now you want to extend your visit for another 5 days! Lord help me!

P: Now I know where B gets if from. You are selfish too.

HR Director at IH: How you gonna go on vacation without making a decision? Com'on man! You know a sista needs a job! Dang!

T: You know I love ya like a sister! Can't wait to hang out with you, the hubby and kids! So glad you guys are back!

DVB: It's been almost 11 months and it seems like yesterday. I miss you more than you know, but I am glad you are at peace. What I wouldn't do for one of your hugs right now!! I love you bunches!!

Note to self: If God brought you to it, he will bring you through it! You can stand on that Word!

[btb87]

To the lizard that got in my apartment: I am not sorry in the least that I killed your little butt! You shoulda stayed outside where lizards belong! See, if you had stayed outside, you could be playing with all your little lizard cousins, trying to eat mosquitos and whatever else your kind eats. Instead, you bring your little self in my apartment. Did you have a death wish? If so, you came to your end in the way that you wanted, although breaking off your tail and a leg probably wasn't part of the deal. No matter now; you're probably in lizard hell, limping around on 3 legs and waiting for your tail to grow back. I'm still jittery and looking around thinking that I'm seeing things move, thanks to you!

To the nice men that took said lizard parts from my apartment: Thank you for removing the leezard. And I don't believe you when you said you weren't lauging at me, you were laughing for me.

[Honeykiss1974]

To btb87: Why do reptile-like critters love you so much? First, the frog (which met an untimely demise down a toliet with a mouth full of bleach) and now a lizard. LOL You do know how to mess a mug up though - broke his tail and everything.

[jitterbug13]

To Lou Holtz, Mike McGee and those people who work at the Roundhouse at USC: I am so mad at ya'll right now! Ya'll know ya'll were doing stuff that was against NCAA regulations to keep players active and covering it up! I bet ya'll also knew that your players were doing illegal activies but since they were 'stars', ya'll covered it up too. That's why Steve Spurrier has been cleaning house since he has arrived! Now if these NCAA violations cost us bowl games that we deserve, IT'S ON!!!!

To Alltel: You do give nice service but why ya'll only had three people working on the floor and had a line almost out the door? Customers were not getting your love today! I think it is time to tell people that there is more than one Alltel store in Charleston. When I go to the others, there's hardly anyone there! Also, why are ya'll selling cell phone covers that are too big for the phone? I have not had a problem with my phone since I changed it to my orginal cover. I may be the first person to complain about it. I bet I won't be the last!

To EW: I am sorry to hear that your grandmother died. But if you think for one minute that I would run to Greenwood to console you, you will be waiting forever! You weren't close to your grandmother anyway and you better not use this as a way for me to come back because I'M NOT!!!! You weren't there for me when I was here, sitting around like a basket case when my uncle had his stroke and my aunt died. I remember it took me forever to reach you and when my aunt was in her last days, you stayed on the phone long enough to ask how the DST info session went. I spent two years of my life trying to make this thing work but you wouldn't met me not even half way. Now all you do is call and text begging me back. You already had two chances and I'm not going to give you a third! I admit there were times that I missed you but I realized that I can do so much better! It just took my mom and my friends to help me realize this. That argument at Outback was probably one of the best things that has happened to me because it made me see how you're really like!

Sorry this was so long but I have to end it on a happy note!

To DA: I had a wonderful time Monday. Let's do it again tonight!