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Let's say you're dating a fairly attractive girl who is, say, mid 20s. She tells you that not only is she a virgin (face it, most 20something virgins have done other things), but she hasn't gone past French kissing anyone and has only kissed 5 men in her life. Would you think that she's "too pure"? She is a virgin not because of religious belief, but beause she never really had the opportunity to do it.
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Hi, that's me. i'm almost 20, kissed 3 guys in my life, and I'm a virgin by my own volition and i'm damn proud of it. I've been with my boyfriend (not a virgin) for 3 years, and we're in no hurry. The ground rules were laid down pretty early in our relationship. We're both Straightedge (no drinking, no drugs, no smoking, no promiscuity, related to punk/hardcore...google sXe) and we're both practicing catholics. While being catholic has something to do with my choice, it's not the only reason. We both were straightedge way before we met, and we sort of met through that subculture.
I think what bothers me is that people are willing to discount someone who might be their soul mate because of what they aren't going to "Get". It's all about "Getting" something. That's just a very selfish attitude to me.
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