Also Finer Woman 10-A-91:
In some areas the Alphas and Deltas "team up" on the whole "pyramid" concept as I[ve seen Akas and Kappas get together on the whole "pretty" issue. That's a trip how it's different on different coasts and regions. It is all love in the end, though
Gloriajean:
No one asks for people to not honor boundaries. Additionally, people do what they want. I stated that before. If a woman TRULY is uncomfortable, she may do what she pleases. Usually I won't call her CAT (not a CAT). I will support her deisre to have boundaries. If a Soror shakes the hands of another that is CAT in my perception...point blank. It is protocol. I have actually seen Sorors tell neos that they have a choice in the matter and not to feel OBLIGATED to hug frat if they don't deem it appropriate or necessary. If frat calls you cat then so what.
As someone else put it, we are NOT constitutionally bound, but there is a history. Honor it or don't...the choice is the woman's.
[This message has been edited by DELTABRAT (edited July 14, 2000).]
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