What do you feel like saying, right now?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

PB, you’re a unicorn, bro Lol.

I saw this earlier but didn’t respond because I don’t even know what this means. GC has had a history of posting unicorns with rainbows shooting out the back, and everyone who knows my posts and/or me IRL and my history on here knows my stance and convictions on “the rainbow”. I don’t think that’s what you meant, but it was the first thing that crossed my mind. Not laughing.

Originally Posted by XAntoftheSkyX

Yeah family dynamics kind of forced my hand. Said family member is related (by marriage) to my mom's side of the family and since my mom's side of the family is much smaller than my dad's, my grandma (mom's mom) would have felt a type of way about that. The relative in question, while can be snarky, has had a long history of it and my mom's family are all aware of it. Thankfully she is sometimes inconsistent with her comments so I may just dodge my way through an awkward event.

They have been invited and confirmed the RSVP recently. I'm just hoping with all the planning and logistics, plus herding my in-laws from Japan I'll be too busy to hear or notice anything uncouth.
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Yeah, I get it. Family pressure is real, especially when you’re trying to keep the peace for the older generation. Just don’t forget your peace still matters in the middle of all that diplomacy, man.

You’re not wrong for hoping it goes smooth. But if it doesn’t, just remember you didn’t create that energy. She did. You’re not responsible for filtering your entire wedding experience through her unpredictability.

Keep someone close who can help buffer or pull her aside if she gets slick. That way you stay focused on the real moment of you and your wife stepping into something sacred.

And if she crosses a line, you’ve got every right to protect your space. RSVP or not, no one gets a free pass to disturb your peace. Just putting that out there.