Any of y'all have to deal with a relative at a wedding you don't particularly like?
I'm finalizing the guest list for my ceremony and I got word that a relative of mine has RSVP'd to the wedding whom I am not a fan of. They aren't related by blood, and their immediate family that are blood-related to me are fine, even pleasant. But the person in question always has some snide or snippy comment to make about anything they don't like or approve of. They have already made asinine comments about my tattoos (which are all easily covered and I have to cover them at work or at the gym here) and other life choices I've made.
I got asked in not so many words to invite them and their immediate family because of family I do like and care about. It would have been inconsiderate to not invite them, but the family member wanting to invite them seems inconsiderate to me and other family members that have had a problem with them in the past.
What's done is done, but does anyone have ideas for any damage control? If I hear anything about their behavior I feel like I will crash out and dump all of the opinions I have of them that have been brewing for the last couple of decades.
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