Advice Needed

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by Mizzou14

I have decided to transfer back closer to home because I feel so alone. The chapter I am in does not have a chapter where I'm transferring. I guess this means I will be a GDI for the rest of my college career, something I never thought would happen.

I would also like to correct this.... you will never be a "GDI". You are an initiated sorority member, whether or not you are an ACTIVE member. I hope that one day, you can be proud of your membership. They wanted you, they offered you sisterhood and wanted you to be part of their chapter. How much effort have you put into the relationship with your sisters?

And I SO hate that term, I hate even using it in reply.

Please tell us that you are not transferring to another university just because you are homesick.... sweetie, it is time to grow up! Put on your big girl panties and make your happiness where you are. Running back home is not the answer.

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by thetalady

I would also like to correct this.... you will never be a "GDI". You are an initiated sorority member, whether or not you are an ACTIVE member. I hope that one day, you can be proud of your membership. They wanted you, they offered you sisterhood and wanted you to be part of their chapter. How much effort have you put into the relationship with your sisters?

And I SO hate that term, I hate even using it in reply.

Please tell us that you are not transferring to another university just because you are homesick.... sweetie, it is time to grow up! Put on your big girl panties and make your happiness where you are. Running back home is not the answer.

All of this.