GreekChat.com Forums  

Go Back   GreekChat.com Forums > Risk Management - Hazing & etc.
Register FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Risk Management - Hazing & etc. This forum covers Risk Management topics such as: Hazing, Alcohol Abuse/Awareness, Date Rape Awareness, Eating Disorder Prevention, Liability, etc.

» GC Stats
Members: 329,794
Threads: 115,673
Posts: 2,205,421
Welcome to our newest member, wangjewelry
» Online Users: 2,658
0 members and 2,658 guests
No Members online
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 05-27-2014, 08:32 PM
MysticCat MysticCat is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: May 2002
Location: A dark and very expensive forest
Posts: 12,731
Quote:
Originally Posted by honorgal View Post
My point is that there are gender and biology differences . . . .
And what, specifically, do you think the biological differences and the gender differences relevant to this discussion are?

Quote:
Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby View Post
I'm saying that a university can and should operate on a lower standard of proof than the criminal justice system. Much in the way we accept "the preponderance of evidence" in a civil suit, there's no reason we should expect the universities to take no action just because someone was criminally acquitted.
Okay, but going back to the earlier post, are you suggesting that when a male student is accused of violating the school's code of student conduct by engaging in sex without the consent of the woman involved, that earlier similar accusations should be considered as evidence that he is guilty of the "current" accusation? Evidence of that sort wouldn't even be admissible in a civil case in court.

As I said before, my problem with lowering the standard to a preponderance of the evidence standard as in most civil cases is that the consequences are more akin to criminal consequences. Civil cases are about liability, not guilt. When the consequence is expulsion, with the long-term ramifications that can have (especially if the expulsion is viewed as being for commission of a felony without actually ever being tried for that felony), I just don't think "more likely than not" can cut it. Perhaps something closer to a clear and convincing evidence standard—higher than preponderance of the evidence but lower than beyond a reasonable doubt—might be workable, but I would still question that.

I understand the concern that victims' rights are being minimized. But I'm concerned when any corrective to that simply trades one problem for another, and that's the case if things shift so that an accused's rights are minimized. An ideal system would balance the rights of the accuser and the rights of the accused. And I have my doubts that most schools are equipped to pull that off.
__________________
AMONG MEN HARMONY
1898
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 05-27-2014, 09:12 PM
DeltaBetaBaby DeltaBetaBaby is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: ILL-INI
Posts: 7,207
Send a message via AIM to DeltaBetaBaby
Quote:
Originally Posted by MysticCat View Post
Okay, but going back to the earlier post, are you suggesting that when a male student is accused of violating the school's code of student conduct by engaging in sex without the consent of the woman involved, that earlier similar accusations should be considered as evidence that he is guilty of the "current" accusation? Evidence of that sort wouldn't even be admissible in a civil case in court.

As I said before, my problem with lowering the standard to a preponderance of the evidence standard as in most civil cases is that the consequences are more akin to criminal consequences. Civil cases are about liability, not guilt. When the consequence is expulsion, with the long-term ramifications that can have (especially if the expulsion is viewed as being for commission of a felony without actually ever being tried for that felony), I just don't think "more likely than not" can cut it. Perhaps something closer to a clear and convincing evidence standard—higher than preponderance of the evidence but lower than beyond a reasonable doubt—might be workable, but I would still question that.

I understand the concern that victims' rights are being minimized. But I'm concerned when any corrective to that simply trades one problem for another, and that's the case if things shift so that an accused's rights are minimized. An ideal system would balance the rights of the accuser and the rights of the accused. And I have my doubts that most schools are equipped to pull that off.
I disagree that being kicked out of college comes anywhere near a criminal penalty, and FERPA would prevent the university from saying anything about it being a rape case, anyhow. Nobody has a constitutional right to a college degree, and college kick people out routinely for things that aren't criminal acts.

Of course the balance is tricky, but as I said upthread, there is research suggesting that one of the reasons rapists continue to rape is that they know there will be no consequences. By *not* holding rapists accountable, it's not just a matter of denying the victims any sort of justice, it's also causing more rape.

And yes, if you have someone who multiple women accuse of rape, who says he didn't rape...well, Occam's Razor.

Last edited by DeltaBetaBaby; 05-27-2014 at 09:40 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 05-27-2014, 09:15 PM
honorgal honorgal is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 277
Quote:
Originally Posted by MysticCat View Post
And what, specifically, do you think the biological differences and the gender differences relevant to this discussion are?
Biological and evolutionary differences in sex drive/sexual motivations. I think they are quite relevant.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 05-27-2014, 11:32 PM
MysticCat MysticCat is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: May 2002
Location: A dark and very expensive forest
Posts: 12,731
Quote:
Originally Posted by honorgal View Post
Biological and evolutionary differences in sex drive/sexual motivations. I think they are quite relevant.
How exactly are they relevant? Are you saying that biology and sex drive/sexual motivation trump personal responsibility or excuse ignoring the difference between right and wrong? Or that boys will be boys?

Quote:
Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby View Post
I disagree that being kicked out of college comes anywhere near a criminal penalty, and FERPA would prevent the university from saying anything about it being a rape case, anyhow.
When I took the bar exam, my application had to list every instance of school discipline I had ever received from high school on. I also had to provide transcripts from college. I can assure you that had I been kicked out of college, I would have had to explain why, and I would not have been able to sit for the bar exam until the expulsion had been fully explained and the bar was satisfied of my moral fitness. To say that being expelled from college for a felony I didn't commit would have had a significant impact on my ability to sit for the bar exam and earn a living is something of an understatement.

Obviously being expelled from college isn't the same as being sent to jail, but it is more like a criminal penalty than a civil one. The loser in a civil case generally pays money damages to the winner.

Like I said, I understand the challenges and the real consequences of not holding rapists accountable. But I can't support a remedy to that problem that ignores the real consequences of declaring innocent people guilty. That's simply trading one form of injustice for another form of injustice.
__________________
AMONG MEN HARMONY
1898
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 05-27-2014, 11:59 PM
maconmagnolia maconmagnolia is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 442
Quote:
Originally Posted by MysticCat View Post
Like I said, I understand the challenges and the real consequences of not holding rapists accountable. But I can't support a remedy to that problem that ignores the real consequences of declaring innocent people guilty. That's simply trading one form of injustice for another form of injustice.
I couldn't agree more.
__________________
Like it, Love it, ADPI!
<> We live for each other <>
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 05-28-2014, 12:37 AM
DeltaBetaBaby DeltaBetaBaby is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: ILL-INI
Posts: 7,207
Send a message via AIM to DeltaBetaBaby
Quote:
Originally Posted by MysticCat View Post
How exactly are they relevant? Are you saying that biology and sex drive/sexual motivation trump personal responsibility or excuse ignoring the difference between right and wrong? Or that boys will be boys?

When I took the bar exam, my application had to list every instance of school discipline I had ever received from high school on. I also had to provide transcripts from college. I can assure you that had I been kicked out of college, I would have had to explain why, and I would not have been able to sit for the bar exam until the expulsion had been fully explained and the bar was satisfied of my moral fitness. To say that being expelled from college for a felony I didn't commit would have had a significant impact on my ability to sit for the bar exam and earn a living is something of an understatement.

Obviously being expelled from college isn't the same as being sent to jail, but it is more like a criminal penalty than a civil one. The loser in a civil case generally pays money damages to the winner.

Like I said, I understand the challenges and the real consequences of not holding rapists accountable. But I can't support a remedy to that problem that ignores the real consequences of declaring innocent people guilty. That's simply trading one form of injustice for another form of injustice.
I didn't say universities should declare innocent people guilty. I said they should have a lower standard of evidence than "beyond a reasonable doubt." Personally, I don't think not being able to go to law school is worse than rape. And what's your alternative? To just keep ignoring rape?

Let's say I catch a student cheating on an exam. Should the university not discipline them because it's their word against mine?

Last edited by DeltaBetaBaby; 05-28-2014 at 12:41 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 05-28-2014, 01:06 AM
honorgal honorgal is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 277
Quote:
Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby View Post

Let's say I catch a student cheating on an exam. Should the university not discipline them because it's their word against mine?
if all you had was your word and no evidence, then yes, a university should not (and wouldn't) discipline.
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 05-28-2014, 01:14 AM
honorgal honorgal is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 277
Quote:
Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby View Post
I didn't say universities should declare innocent people guilty. I said they should have a lower standard of evidence than "beyond a reasonable doubt." Personally, I don't think not being able to go to law school is worse than rape. And what's your alternative? To just keep ignoring rape?
If you were a college administrator, based on the factual evidence that has been released, how would you rule on the Jameis Winston' case?
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 05-28-2014, 08:02 AM
MysticCat MysticCat is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: May 2002
Location: A dark and very expensive forest
Posts: 12,731
Quote:
Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby View Post
I didn't say universities should declare innocent people guilty. I said they should have a lower standard of evidence than "beyond a reasonable doubt." Personally, I don't think not being able to go to law school is worse than rape. And what's your alternative? To just keep ignoring rape?
False dichotomy. The alternative is to work toward a system that better protects and balances the rights of the accuser and the rights of the accused. The bottom line is that I don't think a lower standard of proof, or ideas like treating multiple accusations as proof of the truth of the allegations (they might be, they might not) will solve the problems, and I have little confidence that in practice they'd be workable. I see them leading to a whole different set of problems.

As for my law example, you're missing my point. Of course, not being able to go to law school isn't worse than rape. I'm talking about the possible consequences of a school undertaking the kind of process you're talking about and getting it wrong. I'm talking about the possible consequences of a student being expelled from school for something, a very serious something, he didn't do.

And yes, if a university expels a student for rape, then they are declaring him guilty of rape. Not guilty in a criminal law sense, but guilty in the practical, 'he raped someone" sense.

Quote:
Originally Posted by honorgal View Post
Oh good grief, no. They are relevant for the self evident reason that it's women who are overwhelmingly complaining about the status quo and men are not. That would suggest that women perceive and react to hookup culture differently than men do, and while some of that difference is socialization, it's also biological and evolutionary differences in males and females. The former is amenable to forced change, the latter is not.
Thank you for finally explaining what you mean instead of assuming we'd accurately guess what you mean. As a male, I don't think biology plays nearly the role you seem to—I think what you're calling biology I would call socialization as to what culture says it means to be male or female.
__________________
AMONG MEN HARMONY
1898
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 05-28-2014, 10:11 AM
honorgal honorgal is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 277
Quote:
Originally Posted by MysticCat View Post
False dichotomy. The alternative is to work toward a system that better protects and balances the rights of the accuser and the rights of the accused. The bottom line is that I don't think a lower standard of proof, or ideas like treating multiple accusations as proof of the truth of the allegations (they might be, they might not) will solve the problems, and I have little confidence that in practice they'd be workable. I see them leading to a whole different set of problems.

As for my law example, you're missing my point. Of course, not being able to go to law school isn't worse than rape. I'm talking about the possible consequences of a school undertaking the kind of process you're talking about and getting it wrong. I'm talking about the possible consequences of a student being expelled from school for something, a very serious something, he didn't do.

And yes, if a university expels a student for rape, then they are declaring him guilty of rape. Not guilty in a criminal law sense, but guilty in the practical, 'he raped someone" sense.

Thank you for finally explaining what you mean instead of assuming we'd accurately guess what you mean. As a male, I don't think biology plays nearly the role you seem to—I think what you're calling biology I would call socialization as to what culture says it means to be male or female.
I came of age in the era when nurture was assumed to account for almost all differences and that was also my viewpoint. Since then, the scientific community has made a lot of discoveries about the biological differences. There is certainly still a debate about the exact percentage that is nature vs nurture* but there's no longer much scientific debate that biology plays more than a minor role.

* ETA that there is also an interesting debate about how these two intersect

Last edited by honorgal; 05-28-2014 at 10:37 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 05-28-2014, 02:47 PM
DeltaBetaBaby DeltaBetaBaby is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: ILL-INI
Posts: 7,207
Send a message via AIM to DeltaBetaBaby
Quote:
Originally Posted by MysticCat View Post
False dichotomy. The alternative is to work toward a system that better protects and balances the rights of the accuser and the rights of the accused.
This is where you and I differ. I view the removal of a rapist from campus not just as a means of protecting the victim, but as a means of preventing more rape (and not in the "he'll go rape off-campus" sense, in the "rapists faced with consequences will stop raping" sense). But even so, if a lower standard of proof isn't the solution, what alternatives do you see?

Last edited by DeltaBetaBaby; 05-28-2014 at 02:50 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old 05-28-2014, 01:02 AM
honorgal honorgal is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 277
Quote:
Originally Posted by MysticCat View Post
How exactly are they relevant? Are you saying that biology and sex drive/sexual motivation trump personal responsibility or excuse ignoring the difference between right and wrong? Or that boys will be boys?
Oh good grief, no. They are relevant for the self evident reason that it's women who are overwhelmingly complaining about the status quo and men are not. That would suggest that women perceive and react to hookup culture differently than men do, and while some of that difference is socialization, it's also biological and evolutionary differences in males and females. The former is amenable to forced change, the latter is not.

So, the big question is how do we reduce the risk of women being victimized? Telling them that they are sexually equivalent to men doesn't seem to be doing much for a lot of college women. It seems the new method will be to impose an impossibly unfair adjudication standard that, in your own words, is trading one form of injustice for another form of injustice. And turn our colleges into lawsuit factories.

Last edited by honorgal; 05-28-2014 at 01:15 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #13  
Old 05-28-2014, 07:53 AM
DrPhil DrPhil is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 14,730
Quote:
Originally Posted by honorgal View Post
Oh good grief, no. They are relevant for the self evident reason that it's women who are overwhelmingly complaining about the status quo and men are not. That would suggest that women perceive and react to hookup culture differently than men do, and while some of that difference is socialization, it's also biological and evolutionary differences in males and females. The former is amenable to forced change, the latter is not.

So, the big question is how do we reduce the risk of women being victimized? Telling them that they are sexually equivalent to men doesn't seem to be doing much for a lot of college women. It seems the new method will be to impose an impossibly unfair adjudication standard that, in your own words, is trading one form of injustice for another form of injustice. And turn our colleges into lawsuit factories.
Explain the biological sex differences that are less subject to change. What are the differences?

As for gender differences: While I am a feminist gender egalitarian, the average person around the world (and average college student) does not subscribe to the belief that women and men are or should be (socially) the same. Therefore, most people believe in gender differences (there is longstanding debate about differences and whether any type of difference is bad) and forms of gender inequality are alive and well on most college campuses despite co-ed classrooms (and some schools have co-ed residence halls) and some women being more sexually liberated. There is more to gender equality and challenging gender norms than a free flow (pun intended) of drinking and sex.

Last edited by DrPhil; 05-28-2014 at 08:20 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #14  
Old 05-28-2014, 09:38 AM
honorgal honorgal is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 277
Quote:
Originally Posted by DrPhil View Post
Explain the biological sex differences that are less subject to change. What are the differences?
Hormonal, reproductive, brain size and structure...

Quote:
As for gender differences: While I am a feminist gender egalitarian, the average person around the world (and average college student) does not subscribe to the belief that women and men are or should be (socially) the same. Therefore, most people believe in gender differences (there is longstanding debate about differences and whether any type of difference is bad) and forms of gender inequality are alive and well on most college campuses despite co-ed classrooms (and some schools have co-ed residence halls) and some women being more sexually liberated. There is more to gender equality and challenging gender norms than a free flow (pun intended) of drinking and sex.
Not sure how this specifically relates to the discussion?

Last edited by honorgal; 05-28-2014 at 09:47 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #15  
Old 05-28-2014, 10:08 AM
DrPhil DrPhil is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 14,730
Quote:
Originally Posted by honorgal
Hormonal, reproductive, brain size and structure...
Actually explain what these have to do with this thread topic.

Quote:
Originally Posted by honorgal
Not sure how this specifically relates to the discussion?
You can't be serious.

ETA: What things do people (usually falsely) use as examples of innate or social differences? Alcohol consumption, sex, co-ed living, co-ed classes?

Last edited by DrPhil; 05-28-2014 at 10:23 AM.
Reply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Southern Methodist; Alleged Sexual Assault exlurker Risk Management - Hazing & etc. 0 09-30-2012 05:28 PM
Sexual assault in College-Is it getting worse? SOM Risk Management - Hazing & etc. 13 05-13-2011 05:38 PM
Greek Sexual Assault Programs agrphi Greek Life 5 12-08-2007 07:29 PM
Is 'goosing' really sexual assault? hoosier Risk Management - Hazing & etc. 23 09-27-2005 11:56 AM
Verbal Assault and Sexual Harassment... DeltAlum Chit Chat 16 03-20-2002 12:11 AM


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 09:15 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.