Pref parties can change minds. This board is filled with stories of women who felt little or no connections with the chapters they were attending for pref, but found the longer party time, the more serious conversations and the realization that these women REALLY want you as part of their sisterhood....makes a huge difference.
And really, with chapter sizes of 250-300, is it really possible that the typical college girl will find ZERO connections there? Mostly it is hurt pride and raw emotions at play. If girls can push past that, they can be very happy, usually.
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