How to Ask If Someone is Greek

[irishpipes]

Keep in mind too that most sorority women are happy to help. If they come from a school that was rec-heavy, they remember when they were the one scrambling for recs, and they won't mind returning the favor. I am currently helping a PNM secure recs, and she was terrified to ask people that we both know, thinking that she was imposing terribly. She has been shocked at the favorable response.

On another note, please make sure your resume is complete. This year I have gotten several with no academic information, work history, etc. It makes it a lot more difficult for the rec writer.

[honeychile]

One opening that someone used with me was something like this:

PNM: "That's a very interesting necklace that you're wearing. Does it have any significance?"

Me (smiling): "Yes, it's my sorority crest."

PNM: "Do you mind me asking which sorority? I plan to go through Recruitment at Monster's University. Is your sorority there?"

Me: "Why, yes, it is - Alpha Delta Pi. Have you started looking for recs yet? You'll need them there."

PNM: "Yes! And I don't have any for ADP (yes, P, not Pi, that's why this stands out!) yet."

Me: "Well, it's ADPi, but if you'd like me to write one for you, just let me know."

This was a young woman who I've known since she was about 4 years old, so it was a pleasure to sit down with her and write a rec. I think most alumnae who are asked in a non-demanding way and are provided with the necessary information are only too glad to help out.

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by irishpipes

On another note, please make sure your resume is complete. This year I have gotten several with no academic information, work history, etc. It makes it a lot more difficult for the rec writer.

I have received resumes without phone numbers