What does it say in your by-laws?

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Originally Posted by Old_Row

How do you and your husband know that sorority life is a perfect fit for you? I can't even imagine being married and being in a sorority! It is hard enough to have a serious boyfriend or fiance. Not only are there long required hours spent with your sisters especially when pledging there are also a lot of mandatory activities where your husband will not be welcome or included and some of those will include a lot of other men and parties. I'd feel pretty horrible if my spouse kept going out without me like that. I think when you're married you are in kind of a different place.

Like others have said, even if a sorority technically allows a married lady to join it doesn't mean she won't be immediately cut for that reason. You should be very honest with all the houses when you rush and really think hard about the time and emotional commitments needed especially as a new member because I think you are probably not as well informed about that as you think.

My husband and I are very well aware of all the time commitments and activities, courtesy of many friends. It is appreciated that so many people are speaking up to make sure this is a good decision, though. He just graduated and accepted a job with a global rotation program next month and will be working out of the country almost 8 months of the year. He is very easy going about not being invited to things.