Perspective: collegiates (with some exceptions, of course) do not generally think of "lifetime membership". (another caveat: I'm talking NPC only, since that's what I am/what I know).
The OP does not have the ability, insight, or interest to understand what those of us in the alumnae world have experienced and shared re: membership, and panhellenic relationships. She's all about the here and now. That's fine. I get it. So my opinion, that the OP asked for: RESIGN. Walk away. Be finished.
And don't ever say one negative word about that sorority or any other, for that matter. You quit. That's the period at the end of the sentence. It wasn't for you. Okay? Fine. Move along, nothing to see here.
adpiucf I am 24 hours away from reclaiming the ability to be annoyed. This is pushing it, I know, I know.
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"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
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