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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
While she may be the victim, if she's going to continue allowing it to happen (and the fool me once axiom will come into play here), she shouldn't be allowed in the house where her presence makes inherent risk of violence happening again and thus opening the chapter to risk as well. If she's going to allow it to happen, the house has to minimize their risk.
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Her presence doesn't increase the risk of violence... the presence of the ABUSER increases the risk of violence. She's not abusing herself.
Without writing a thesis here I'll just say that by the time an abuser actually starts physically abusing within a relationship, the psychological ability for the person being abused to just leave has been so damaged it's often so profoundly difficult most non-abused folks will just never understand.
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