Going Early Alum... need help.

Originally Posted by 33girl

I know this is a sour grapes-ish answer, but the big-little relationship isn't always the lifechanging awesomeness it's made out to be. I know lots of people who can't stand their bigs/littles. (Your little is also not always younger than you and lots of girls aren't into being "mentored.") Ditto living in. It can be fun, but it can also be stressful. In other words, maybe those things would have been great for you, but there's a chance they could have sucked too. If that makes you feel better.

I advise you to throw yourself wholeheartedly into activities of all sorts at your new school and make lasting friends there. DON'T spend all your time with your boyfriend.

Haha. Well. I kind of have to spend a lot of time with him, since we live together. But he is a very understanding man and doesn't resent me the time with friends and even encourages it. He's been a huge help through this whole reinstatement process as well.

What you're saying about big/little relationships ARE true. My big (that I ADORE) absolutely hates her big, who also hates both of us (even though I've never met her officially). So I understand how that can be, but I've always wanted to try. Someone above mentioned maybe a sister search, and finding someone like me that transferred or whatnot.