HELP! Informal and Different Bid Days!

[DubaiSis]

You don't know that you'd rather accept a bid from ABC - you haven't gone through rush yet. Keep an open mind and proceed through the process.

I wish for you that they offered their bids at about the same time period, but it is what it is. If XYZ won't wait for you to finish the process with ABC, then you are just going to have to make a decision and be prepared to live with the consequences. This kind of decision is really common in grown up life - do you accept the job that's been offered to you or hold out for the one you really want but don't know if you'll be offered? You might as well learn now that there are difficult choices to be made in life.

Good luck!

[33girl]

Are these NPC sororities, NPHC sororities, local sororities, or something else?

If this is NPC, and this is informal rush, there may be a "bid day" but it doesn't mean they can't give out bids after that. It happens during formal rush all the time for groups that don't fill to quota or total.

Go ahead and go through all the sessions for ABC. If XYZ really wants you, they will not pressure you to make a decision before you're ready. (This scheduling kind of smacks of XYZ trying to prey on unsure rushees, actually.)