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Originally Posted by allthatglitters
She went through recruitment as a freshman and got cut from our chapter, so she's going through now as a sophomore and has her sights set on our chapter and only our chapter and seems pretty confident because a) that girl has been telling her all year she's definitely in and b) she knows so many girls because she's always in our house hanging out and at socials. My thing is, if you were cut once, there was probably a reason, a solid reason, and I don't think its fair that she's essentially playing the system backwards and going though again to get in our house and isn't really caring about any other house. I talked to an older girl about it and she said to trust the system, so I am, but is that "dirty rushing" technically or am I just crazy?
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I don't think this is dirty rushing at all. She got to know a sister and the sister really likes her, and apparently the other sisters do too. That's pretty much the best way to get a bid if you're a sophomore. Many women don't do well going straight from high school to sorority rush without knowing anyone (I know I wouldn't have) and that year of college makes a big difference for some people.
As far as the sister calling her "pledge daughter to be" - well, it's her reputation that's going on the line. It will shake out however it shakes out. If this girl gets a bid and turns out to be awful, you can bet no one will EVER listen to any recommendation your sister makes ever again.
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