Cardinal Rule Broken by Our Greek Advisor ;-(

[Greek_or_Geek?]

Originally Posted by DubaiSis

Interesting. So although many of us find it distasteful, it isn't actually breaking a rule as stated. Probably back in the day NPC considered it a non-issue and hasn't been contested with them to date. If this is your sorority (I didn't read from the original that it is but I might have missed something), you might ask them for their input, but otherwise, it sounds like it is merely distasteful and not actually against the rules. I would try to change your mindset to one that values her variety of experience instead of treating it like an unfaithful spouse. It sounds like you otherwise like her so I'd try to get over it.

That's not exactly correct. From this thread, while it may not be against the rules of NPC organizations, we know it is specifically against the rules of at least one NPHC organization.

[Senusret I]

Originally Posted by Greek_or_Geek?

That's not exactly correct. From this thread, while it may not be against the rules of NPC organizations, we know it is specifically against the rules of at least one NPHC organization.

Right.

And even in those NPHC organizations who do have rules against it, there are those chapters who willfully break the rules because they like the person, or because the applicant downplays what type of organization it was, or outright lies, etc.

I know plenty of great people who made mistakes in undergrad (not the least of which is pledging the "wrong" organization), but you have to live with those mistakes.

If just one NPHC organization allows this, it really, really damages the entire system in more ways than one.