General comment about friendship: someone has to get the ball rolling; just because an interaction feels weird and awkward doesn't mean it actually is.
If someone in your sorority that you don't know that well asked you out for lunch or asked about your day, how would you feel about it? Now, imagine the other way around.
Imagine if you are now the big and your little is an identical version of yourself. What would happen?
It's definitely more scary to create an opening than to find one, but you can always create an opening when you can't find any.
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