Can I get the same experience being in a sorority if I can't live in their house?

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by Vitashort

You are absolutely right I personally do not know every aspect of the recruitment process, I just go by what I have seen and what others in the sorority have told me. Maybe they were mistaken and missed something as you suggested, but I was going by what they told me. I only seem ignorant because I am not stressing and worried about getting in, and that is something nobody should worry about. If I don't get in, I'll move on, but I know my chances are pretty good. It isn't wrong to just want to prepare financially anyway and think about the living aspect. In all honesty would you want to be in a sorority if you didn't feel you bonded with your sisters? Bonding I would think is a very huge aspect of a sorority and that is the main thing I would like to get out of it. Being close with sisters. That was my reasoning for the "lame" question. Something most people coming into something new like this worry about, but usually never speak on.

Then your question has been answered. Some people live in, some people don't, and some chapters don't even have houses. Living with someone doesn't automatically bond you to them, and not living in a house doesn't mean that you'll never have a bond with anyone. And everyone's experience is different.

Move on.

[Vitashort]

Originally Posted by ASTalumna06

Then your question has been answered. Some people live in, some people don't, and some chapters don't even have houses. Living with someone doesn't automatically bond you to them, and not living in a house doesn't mean that you'll never have a bond with anyone. And everyone's experience is different.

Move on.

Yes, it was answered and I've moved on since it was. Now I would like others to move on from going off topic about whether or not I get a bid since that wasn't my question. Thank you.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by Vitashort

Yes, it was answered and I've moved on since it was. Now I would like others to move on from going off topic about whether or not I get a bid since that wasn't my question. Thank you.

You might as well stop controlling the thread. They go where they go on GC...you have no control. The more you cry about it, the more you feed the beast.

[Vitashort]

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

You might as well stop controlling the thread. They go where they go on GC...you have no control. The more you cry about it, the more you feed the beast.

My response was in response to somebody trying to control the thread. I gave the same response they gave me about "moving on" haha.I'm not crying about anything just giving them what they gave me. Thanks for your input