Legacy, crazy grandmother, advice please!!!

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by BidMe

No, I was just blabbering and making an unnecessary assumption. Like I said, I want to be a part of a group that I think fits me best. Yes, I think it would be great to be apart of a long line of tri-delts, but I don't think that should be the factor determining which sorority I belong to for the REST OF MY LIFE. I mean I feel so much pressure already and its not even summer. What if tri-delt cuts me? What if tri-delt and my other legacy cuts me? That would be so embarrassing for me. I would be like reject in my family. My sister made it to pref day at least (I know if a legacy makes it to pref they are put at the top of the bid list). Ugh this is all I can think about!

btw I'm from the South. Luckily I'm going North for school. If you have ever seen the show GCB that is my family. Yes, those people are real. Hopefully the Northern sororities have room for a little Southern twang or I'm doomed.

Ah, I see. It's not like you're dead set on Tri Delt, but are worried about your family expectations.

Let me ask you this: Is your sister shunned and rejected by your entire family for not being Tri Delt? If not, chances are good that they wouldn't do that to you.