How does someone who wants to be a member talk to the current members?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by nenelee18

Do you have any advice for when I see them around campus? Should I make small talk or compliment them? I don't want to seem desperate. I'm worried that I might have ruined my chances. I saw three of them sitting in the student center and I sat at the seat across from them waiting for my friend. I didn't say anything. I was so nervous! I didn't think they would remember me.
They looked busy and I didn't want to interrupt their convo. I just introduced myself at the tea party. I don't really know them. I hope they don't think I'm stuck up. Honestly, I was too afraid to go up and talk with them and I didn't know what to say. Should I have said something? There is a skee week next week. I'm going to try and talk to them then. I hope they forget this situation.

Originally Posted by Xidelt

FYI: she is interested in an NPHC org. Whole different recruitment structure than formal NPC orgs.

Which is why she put this in the AKA forum.

Happy AKAversary (I can't believe I typed that), LikeASista.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Which is why she put this in the AKA forum.

There were several other posts that have since been deleted. Xidelt's response was for one of those.

[DrPhil]

Oh yeah, this is the thread where that person started giving recruitment advice.