How does someone who wants to be a member talk to the current members?
 

Do you have any advice for when I see them around campus? Should I make small talk or compliment them? I don't want to seem desperate. I'm worried that I might have ruined my chances. I saw three of them sitting in the student center and I sat at the seat across from them waiting for my friend. I didn't say anything. I was so nervous! I didn't think they would remember me.
They looked busy and I didn't want to interrupt their convo. I just introduced myself at the tea party. I don't really know them. I hope they don't think I'm stuck up. Honestly, I was too afraid to go up and talk with them and I didn't know what to say. Should I have said something? There is a skee week next week. I'm going to try and talk to them then. I hope they forget this situation.

Oh my goodness.

FYI: she is interested in an NPHC org. Whole different recruitment structure than formal NPC orgs.

oh lawd...

~sigh~ Oh dear ... :confused: Before I pass judgement on anyone, ... Was I like this before I made it to AKA Land? I can't even remember anymore. Especially since today is my AKAversary! I'm 12-years-old today! :D

OK... I am going to give an answer. Just be yourself. Go to events and participate in community service because you actually want to, not just because you want to be a member. Learn as much as you can, be humble, pray on it, do not feel entitled, and do not be annoying. Be cool, calm and collected. I would not ask questions like this on a site, you seem... well "thirsty". :(

Which is why she put this in the AKA forum.

Happy AKAversary (I can't believe I typed that), LikeASista.

Happy AKAversary!!!

There were several other posts that have since been deleted. Xidelt's response was for one of those.

Oh yeah, this is the thread where that person started giving recruitment advice.

Thank you, soror and sister-soror!! Why you hatin', Doc?! You know you LOVE us and all our AKA-lisms! :D

Happy belated AKAversary LikeASista!

Thank you kindly, sister-soror!! :)

Happy AKAversary Soror (belated). You know how mesmerizing that pink and green can be. :D

Isn't it, though? And such a serious, SERIOUS matter! :D And thank you kindly, soror. Better belated than not at all. ;)