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Old 12-27-2011, 01:06 AM
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Maybe you shouldn't make any big decisions until you get your emotional state figured out. You've had a big trauma. Trying to juggle all of this is obviously too much for you. Talk to your chapter president and advisor. There may be options to let you get things together without losing a valuable resource like Alpha Gam. Under no circumstances should you force yourself to do things that will make you uncomfortable or relive the event. Continue with your counseling. Ask your counselor for advice on how to proceed, as well. Thank goodness you had a friend that got you help when you needed it. Take care of yourself. I am sorry you have had to suffer through this and feel alone.
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Old 12-27-2011, 04:43 AM
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Maybe you shouldn't make any big decisions until you get your emotional state figured out. You've had a big trauma. Trying to juggle all of this is obviously too much for you. Talk to your chapter president and advisor. There may be options to let you get things together without losing a valuable resource like Alpha Gam. Under no circumstances should you force yourself to do things that will make you uncomfortable or relive the event. Continue with your counseling. Ask your counselor for advice on how to proceed, as well. Thank goodness you had a friend that got you help when you needed it. Take care of yourself. I am sorry you have had to suffer through this and feel alone.
I agree with all of this...especially not making any big decisions until you are feeling better.

Have you considered going to the campus police? I know it would be hard, but the man who did this to you will do it again to someone else. I'd want to do everything possible to prevent that from happening.
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