I don't find anything offensive in the OP's post. Squirrel Love is right. She did what we recommend, and it didn't improve. Let's face it, there are chapters out there we know we'd NEVER fit in with for a whole variety of reasons, and if we are not going to be guilty of foisting unicorns pooping rainbows on rushees, we have to accept that it just didn't work out for her the first time.
It also appears that she doesn't consider the colony a consolation prize - it's not - but I am concerned that she thinks she's picking them, and not the reverse. Hopefully she will get through this process smoothly and there will be a love connection on both sides.
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