First signs of a bad first date

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by dekeguy

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Wow, what a coincidence!

Peter

*chuckles* well then

The more formal/courtly boyfriend is actually older than you. But still I'd have kind of an issue with the whole ordering for me thing. And while I fully agree that wine/champagne appropriately paired is fundamentally different than getting sloshed, as a 'dislikes the taste of alcohol' person, it wouldn't work so much.

None of that is a dealbreaker so much though. And such a formal date CAN be completely appealing. I go about dating very much differently than others though, in that I would know the person very well before that first date - even just online, I typically talk/bond a lot before meeting. The times I have not done that have ended poorly, the times I have have resulted in relationships.

All of that said, my *ahem* dance card is a bit full at the moment in that I don't think I could see adding particularly another long distance relationship, but you know, you have my PM box *eyebrow waggle*

Originally Posted by AGDee

I'd take a dekeguy kind of date in a heart beat, but I'm old.

I want to make it clear I wouldn't reject the date in and of itself, but would just adjust a few things for an 'ideal' date. I got one of those kind of dates, including a walk afterwards that could be considered a 'constitutional' and was awesome.