Thank you all for the great ideas, perspectives and discussion.
I've been discussing this with my firefighter colleagues and they feel that security bars with an internal release are better than windows with security film. The idea here is that it is easier for the occupants or firefighters to get out in an emergency and the firefighters to get in to rescue someone.
With bars, occupants can release the bars from the inside or firefighters can pop them from the building with quick saw cuts. Depending on the security film, it may take some doing with a saw to cut the window/glass open and the occupants can't just throw a chair at it if they have to escape.
I like the idea about possibly making the flat roof a sundeck - good suggestion! That costs big money; but, we were hoping to do a major overhaul on the house and maybe it can be budgeted in.
As for addressing the culture of apathy with the members, I suppose I could get a firefighter (not me) to do a talk who could "keep it real" for the girls. I know a couple firefighters who could get the point across, but they're older and not "hot". LOL
.....Kelly