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Old 03-27-2011, 03:53 PM
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Of course i go to meetings! I'm actually just came from one! And I have more later on in the day

Yes i automatically go over and introduce my friends and say hi!

I just want to be closer to my dad becuase he is a lot older 60's and trying to spend as much time with him becuase he is not in the greatest health condition.

How in the world does HS play into this? I just miss my dad.

Thank you!!! Thats my plan!! I even have a lot of things today to do with my sisters and I am Living in next year!! So I think that if I keep putting the effort in it will pay off.

I still dont see the bad mouthing thing. I never said they were horrible mean women in fact they are the exact opposite. I just said we are not clicking.

And really they dont know about the transferring thing at all it just something that i've been looking over for the future possibility. Like I stated above I am living in next year so.
Again, you know all of the answers already. What were you expecting people on Greekchat to tell you that you do not already know and have not already done?

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Also from what I have been saying, i think, it has been clear that i mean "I'm not close to any of the members...yet."
Did you just learn the difference between "I do not like my chapter" (your thread title) and "I'm not close to any of the members...yet"?

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No in fact I never heard of my sorority before rush. Also I felt that if I participated more i would be closer. I have made progress which I am happy about.
Translation: NPC

You have made progress since creating this thread and going to today's chapter meeting. Good. You basically just felt like venting in a thread but could've figured it out without Greekchat.
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Old 03-27-2011, 04:12 PM
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You have made progress since creating this thread and going to today's chapter meeting. Good. You basically just felt like venting in a thread but could've figured it out without Greekchat.
Not at all Ma'am my question was "what would you do?". Ma'am all I want to do is see what others would do if they put all this effort and they were still not close to anyone. If i knew all the answers then I wouldn't have come here. Ma'am to me it seems like instead of offering advice or sharing a story you are on the attack. Also no I have made progress from when I first started (new member term) to now it just i still have not found my niche. Each day that I talk to a sister I make progress.

S.N. Many have said that living in, random days, and recruitment have helped them bond. So I should just keep at it.
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Old 03-27-2011, 04:25 PM
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Not at all Ma'am my question was "what would you do?". Ma'am all I want to do is see what others would do if they put all this effort and they were still not close to anyone. If i knew all the answers then I wouldn't have come here. Ma'am to me it seems like instead of offering advice or sharing a story you are on the attack. Also no I have made progress from when I first started (new member term) to now it just i still have not found my niche. Each day that I talk to a sister I make progress.

S.N. Many have said that living in, random days, and recruitment have helped them bond. So I should just keep at it.
If this is an attack to you, your fragility is why you haven't found your niche and that's what I alluded to on the first page.

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LOL @ "Ma'am"
She should call me "ma'am."
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Old 03-27-2011, 04:41 PM
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If this is an attack to you, your fragility is why you haven't found your niche and that's what I alluded to on the first page.
Not at all Ma'am I don't know how else to word it. To me it seems like you are playing defense instead of offense. When talking to a few girls i have learned that that my personality and demenor are very intimidating. Nothing about me is fragile. I don't know from your first post it all seems so passive agressive for no apparrent reason. Like you jumped past the part of me actually trying to make connections with my sister to just saying im thinking of transferring and saying I was blaming the chapter.

I have gained some knowledge from the the post of others. Hopefully if a girl is having similiar trouble she can look to this thread and get the same value that I did.
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Old 03-27-2011, 04:46 PM
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When talking to a few girls i have learned that that my personality and demenor are very intimidating
Anyway, good luck to you.

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Old 03-27-2011, 04:48 PM
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Anyway, good luck to you.
Why thank you very much Ma'am! Have a great week!!
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Old 03-27-2011, 04:52 PM
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LOL, I know Gusteau, but I ignored that.

I find this thread funny because she began with "whoa is me" but responded with "yeah, I'm doing that" to almost everything. She's homesick and doesn't know how to find her niche but she's also intimidating (which doesn't prevent fragility). Yet, she doesn't know why she can't find her niche. Good luck to her.

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Old 03-27-2011, 04:50 PM
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She should call me "ma'am."
Right. I just found her repetitive use of it to be humorous because it seemed like she was trying to be sassy.
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