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Originally Posted by MysticCat
Your natural assumption would be incorrect, and the reality of the dynamics of this board would lead to a different conclusion. Many if not most regular GCers access the boards through the " New Posts" page. They scroll down and look at the threads, clicking on those that interest them, often paying little if any attention to which forum the thread is in. May sound crazy, but that's the reality here.
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That would be the "New Posts" page that lists the sub-section on the right and then after clicking the thread lists the sub-section on top?
They don't pay attention to which forum the thread is in, so they don't realize a conversation isn't about them before they start talking... how is that my fault?
In all seriousness, what's the point of having different sections at all?
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...Nobody is asking you to sit there and listen to us badmouth the United States of America, Otter.
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nice ref.
Seriously though... that's social norming. I have GC regulars telling me: I shouldn't have a conversation about anything broader than my org (or possibly song identification), and sub-section labels are to be disregarded in all cases.
If I accept that, it puts some limits on what I can talk about. In this case, when talking about my org's expansion. I can tell you where we should go for whatever positive reasons, but I can't cite any negative reasons for not going to another region (even though that was specifically the question). If I do, I'm automatically talking about every chapter of XYZ and ABC, and I'm going to be attacked.
That limitation devalues the worth of a place like this, for no purpose at all. I think it's wrong, and I'm not going to do it.
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And we, who have been around GC a lot longer than you have, are trying to tell you that that "key contextual difference" isn't nearly as key as you seem to think. I can understand why you would think it is, but in reality, it's just not.
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I get what you're saying, and that's highly unfortunate.
I would never post in another org's section unless it was appropriate to the conversation AND I was giving outside perspective on what I always assume is their internal discussion.
Maybe I'll make a mistake from time to time, but I can try to respect another org's space the same way I expect them to respect mine.
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Originally Posted by dukedg
I am interested to know your thoughts on the Berkeley ATO chapter, specifically, being relatively familiar with the area and campus, as well as knowing a few alumni well.
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I will PM you. I don't, within reason, mind discussing a chapter in public, but only if they're here to defend themselves.