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What Can I Say... I'm Shocked!!!
Let me tell you a little story!! There was this girl, who lost a lot of weight the summer before she went to college (ECU to be exact) I looked good, i was not a waif, but i was curvy ( I had a perfect hourglass figure) Then i got mono and lost even more weight. I felt soo much pressure to kept it off that i was always at the rec center, i start throwing up and taking laxatives( i was bulimic in high school too). I thought that guys would like me better if look thin. Within a year i was SICK!! I was forced to leave ECU and move back home. I gained about 60 pounds, mostly because of the side effects from the meds i was taking. I would cry if i even looked in the mirror 'cause i was not pretty anymore!! BUT...
Now, i am a year older and i was realized that even though i'm not the way i was two years ago, and i honestly may never be that way again, I am pretty. I am a healthy,yet plump women who takes better care of herself. I have more guys pick me up, and guys who want to get to know me better. The other day, i was dressed up and getting ready to go the a bar with some friends and this guy cames up to me and tells me i am very beautiful. I WAS SHOCKED!!! Out of all my friends this guy(cute and mid 20's) comes to me and says that (and my friends are mostly blonde, 5'7 and about 110 lbs. GORGEROUS GIRLS!!) I mean...I think the older guys get the more they realize beauty comes in all shapes. i'm 22 now and most of the guys i hang out with are in their 20's. I know they look at women differently then they did when they first got into college!
UFPike -- you are probably a nice guy, but you should think about what you said.
Sorry if my story is boring, i not sure if my point got across.
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