GreekChat.com Forums  

Go Back   GreekChat.com Forums > General Chat Topics > Dating & Relationships
Register FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

» GC Stats
Members: 329,760
Threads: 115,670
Posts: 2,205,207
Welcome to our newest member, starck
» Online Users: 1,788
1 members and 1,787 guests
shadokat
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #16  
Old 10-27-2010, 12:54 PM
DrPhil DrPhil is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 14,730
Quote:
Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 View Post
I remember hearing from a friend that The Knot is so crazy that a woman (who had gotten into some drama with another bride on the site) once called that bride's cake vendor (people on The Knot opently share the details of their events like locations, dresses, vendors, etc.) and CANCELLED their contract.
LOL

The Knot is just like any other site, GC included. There are crazies and there will be smartasses. Annnnnnd, you can't tell too much detail about anything in your life because some people are crazy enough to take it THERE.

Cyberbullying thread part 2.
Reply With Quote
  #17  
Old 10-27-2010, 02:07 PM
Animate Animate is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: May 2007
Location: 2 blocks from the end of the internet.
Posts: 736
I'm on theknot only to keep my guest list. That feature is pretty good. I don't frequent any of the other areas but I'm a groom thankfully.

Don't get me wrong, I'm probably more involved in wedding planning than my fiance would like but its my day too.

One thing I don't get is why women seem to become a whole different beast for 1 day; an important day, but one day.
__________________
Sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name...I don't. That place is usually called work.
Reply With Quote
  #18  
Old 10-27-2010, 02:55 PM
NinjaPoodle NinjaPoodle is offline
Super Moderator
 
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: On the beach. Well....not really but near it. :0)
Posts: 13,569
Quote:
Originally Posted by Animate View Post
Fixed that for you.
yeah, we do have our moments.
Quote:
Originally Posted by 33girl View Post
Do you have to show any sort of proof that you're engaged to get on theknot?

This could be a fun field trip. LOL.
Hee hee.
__________________
Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc. ** Greater Service, Greater Progress
Since 1922

Last edited by NinjaPoodle; 10-27-2010 at 04:22 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #19  
Old 10-27-2010, 03:02 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2003
Posts: 18,137
Quote:
Originally Posted by Animate View Post
Don't get me wrong, I'm probably more involved in wedding planning than my fiance would like but its my day too.
*gasp*

You mean the woman isn't just throwing an event for herself in which you just show up and say "I do?"

I've been involved in quite a few weddings and more often than not, the wedding is refered to by the bride as "MY DAY" or "MY BIG DAY" and the grooms are generally of the "just tell me what to wear and when to be there" persuasion.

__________________
"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi

Lakers Nation.
Reply With Quote
  #20  
Old 10-27-2010, 03:23 PM
carnation carnation is offline
Super Moderator
 
Join Date: Aug 2000
Posts: 14,248
What on earth do these bridezillas do on the knot?
Reply With Quote
  #21  
Old 10-27-2010, 03:36 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2003
Posts: 18,137
Talk about their upcoming weddings.

Openly snark on other people's wedding plans.

I mean, I know WE snark, but their snark makes ours look like Sunday school.

The kicker: I popped over there when I saw this thread and saw that they have a wedding planning board for people who are NOT ENGAGED YET.

It's full of people whining about how their boyfriends won't propose and asking questions like "Is it okay for me to book the venue even though he hasn't asked me to marry him yet?"

Hilarious.

__________________
"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi

Lakers Nation.

Last edited by KSUViolet06; 10-27-2010 at 03:46 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #22  
Old 10-27-2010, 03:37 PM
DrPhil DrPhil is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 14,730
Quote:
Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 View Post
*gasp*

You mean the woman isn't just throwing an event for herself in which you just show up and say "I do?"

I've been involved in quite a few weddings and more often than not, the wedding is refered to by the bride as "MY DAY" or "MY BIG DAY" and the grooms are generally of the "just tell me what to wear and when to be there" persuasion.
And the opposite is the case for most of my friends and family. We are big gender equality people and it is OUR DAY. If the man doesn't want to do any planning then that means they both hire a planner. I firmly believe that how the engagement and wedding process goes is a window into how the marriage and family process will go. If she's (he's) a crazy bitch then she's (he's) probably just a crazy bitch whose craziness was secret before then. If he's (she's) a lazy bitch then he (she) will probably be a lazy bitch forever.
Reply With Quote
  #23  
Old 10-27-2010, 03:40 PM
AOEforme AOEforme is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: With Germs and a Lack of Sleep
Posts: 1,001
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kappamd View Post
You can opt out of all Knot emails. I did, mostly because they send about 10 a day.
Yup. I did this too. I still get Brides.com "Idea of the Day" e-mail because it's one e-mail every weekday that takes me under 60 seconds to read.

Quote:
Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 View Post
I remember hearing from a friend that The Knot is so crazy that a woman (who had gotten into some drama with another bride on the site) once called that bride's cake vendor (people on The Knot opently share the details of their events like locations, dresses, vendors, etc.) and CANCELLED their contract.

Are you kidding me?

Jeez.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Animate View Post
I'm on theknot only to keep my guest list. That feature is pretty good. I don't frequent any of the other areas but I'm a groom thankfully.

Don't get me wrong, I'm probably more involved in wedding planning than my fiance would like but its my day too.
Good for you! She is probably really grateful for the help, but stressed. I know sometimes I would love to be able to just make a decision alone and I get annoyed when he pesters me, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I love that he cares about the wedding.

(Even when I had to send him about ninety different inspiration boards with color schemes, because he wasn't completely satisfied with the one we had chosen.... He finally sent one back to me with a color combination he approved of... and it was good!)
__________________
My Heart will always be with Alpha Omega E.

LET'S GO BIG RED!
Let me teach you how to Bucky!

Last edited by AOEforme; 10-27-2010 at 03:43 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #24  
Old 10-27-2010, 08:19 PM
AOIIalum AOIIalum is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: You're looking at Planet Earth
Posts: 6,551
Quote:
Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 View Post

The kicker: I popped over there when I saw this thread and saw that they have a wedding planning board for people who are NOT ENGAGED YET.

It's full of people whining about how their boyfriends won't propose and asking questions like "Is it okay for me to book the venue even though he hasn't asked me to marry him yet?"

Hilarious.

Sure, you can book the venue, but don't be surprised if you never have an event there. I can't even envision the snarktasticness over there.
__________________
"If you want to criticize my methods, fine. But you can keep your snide remarks to yourself. And while you're at it, don't criticize my methods." Rupert Giles, BtVS
Reply With Quote
  #25  
Old 10-29-2010, 12:15 PM
Animate Animate is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: May 2007
Location: 2 blocks from the end of the internet.
Posts: 736
LOL I popped in on the boards over there I nearly died laughing at some of these women. Its kind of sad honestly...
__________________
Sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name...I don't. That place is usually called work.
Reply With Quote
  #26  
Old 11-02-2010, 09:52 PM
PeppyGPhiB PeppyGPhiB is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: The Emerald City
Posts: 3,413
I actually got some good ideas and advice from The Knot local board. The national boards can be rough, but actually I don't find most of the women to be that bad. A lot of the things they call women out on are really rude, etiquette no-nos. Soooo many people asking how to politely ask for cash gifts, how to ask guests to bring food to the reception, how to invite some people to the wedding but not reception (or vise versa), etc. If people are that rude and don't have the common sense to know how to NOT treat their wedding party, family and guests, they deserve to hear it.
__________________
Gamma Phi Beta
Love. Labor. Learning. Loyalty.
Reply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Well with all the wedding threads...show us your The Knot page... WhiteDaisy128 Dating & Relationships 4 01-05-2007 06:06 PM
Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman tie the knot Jill1228 Entertainment 2 06-25-2006 12:15 PM
guess who tied the knot?! smiley21 Entertainment 18 05-11-2005 01:19 PM
My Ex is Tying the Knot KillarneyRose Dating & Relationships 20 02-26-2002 01:15 PM
Toni & Keri tie the knot Eclipse Alpha Kappa Alpha 1 04-30-2001 07:39 PM


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 11:49 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.