Gay Emory Student Dragged From Frat Party

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Originally Posted by Drolefille

Seriously, fuck off.

Nah. You're my favorite SK!!!

No one is responsible for rape but the rapist. A woman should not have to dress a certain way or have to avoid certain neighborhoods to not get raped.

In a perfect world, she should not have to. In an imperfect world, she should exercise caution.

There is a neighborhood near mine that is known for gang activity, drugs, prostitution, you know, all the vices. Yeah, I've got every right to be out on any street at any time of day, even in this neighborhood. Now, knowing what goes on there, would it be wise for me just to drive around because I want to? No. Nothing can stop me, but it would still be a pretty stupid idea.

You can say my name 12 more times in your next post and I'll still tell you you're part of the fucking problem.

Great! I'll say your screen name during Halloween and see what I can dredge up from the cemetery.

Yes, being raped is exactly like a flood. Women should have to be on guard for surprise rape all the time. I mean if they mess up, they basically deserve it right? They really should take responsibility and not be so rapable. Always asking for it.

No, being raped is not like a flood. But for obvious reasons it is a very hot button issue that really had nothing to do with the original topic of this thread. I used the flood analogy as a silly ploy to divert the conversation from a sensitive issue. I guess you missed that part. No problem....

So when a woman is raped by her boyfriend, that's also her fault? A wife by her husband? If the woman is wearing jeans is it impossible for her to have been raped because she obviously had to help the guy take her jeans off and that means she wanted it? She was raped by an ex, but they'd had sex before so it's ok right? Or is it only when they're walking down the street in a short skirt that they're asking for it? Or drunk at a party?

No, none of that is alright. I've said so previously. All I said was that a woman should use good judgment in her actions, if she can control them. Being falling down drunk at a party to me is not good judgment. She has made herself very vulnerable. Not a good idea.

There are situations that you can control. If so, take control.

You're right, asking people to take responsibility not to rape people is the wrong answer here.

Huh???

No, the guy does not deserve any blame for being assaulted.

He does not deserve all of the blame, but he did walk into a situation that did easily escalate.

It's like picking a fight, then getting mad 'cause you got your @$$ kicked.